Gay South Africa News & Reports 2005-06

FRONTLINE: South Africa – The World’s Largest AIDS Epidemic

1 In South Africa, Stigma Magnifies Pain of AIDS 1/05

2 Taking Gay Pride to South Africa’s black townships 3/05

3 South Africa high court weighs lesbian marriage case 5/05

4 New Publication on South African Gay and Lesbian Youth 6/05

5 Thousands celebrate Gay Pride 9/05

6 South African court allows gay marriages 12/05

7 Mass gay weddings planned 12/05

8 Lesbian murder prompts homophobia fears 2/06

9 Historic march highlights lesbian’s killing 2/06

10 Taking Gay Pride to SA’s townships where gays are not yet accepted 2/06

11 Triangle Project Attacks South African Times for Lesbian Endangerment 2/02

12 Human Rights Watch says South Africa must protect lesbians 3/06

13 Gay Sport South Africa – GSSA 3/06

14 SA’s gay cinema ‘going places’ 3/06

15 20% Of South African Gay Students Raped 4/06

16 Lesotho takes HIV test on the road 5/06

16a When a Pill Is Not Enough 8/06

17 The interview: Edwin Cameron 8/06

18 U.N. Official Assails South Africa on Its Response to AIDS 8/06

19 S Africa Cabinet approves gay marriage bill 8/06

20 South Africa on road to allowing same-sex marriage 8/06

21 Gay Laws in Africa And Around the World 9/06

22 Being gay and Zulu 10/06

22a Gay life in the township is one of loneliness, fear and violence 11/06

23 South African panel OKs gay marriage 11/06

24 Lesbian/gay organisations welcome the civil union act… 11/06

25 Gay Marriage Approved: Parliament Approves Gay Marriages 11/06

26 Gay couple plan legal wedding 11/06

27 Gay bill: ‘End of the world’ 11/06

28 South African Gays Often Face Harsh Reality

29 Senegalese Debate S. Africa’s Same-Sex Marriage Bill 11/06

30 Cheers, boos as South Africa legalises gay marriage 11/06

31 First South African gay couple ties the knot 12/06

32 Out in Africa 12/06

33 Marriage for South Africans but Black Gays Still Target of Hate Crimes 12/06

34 African Female Scholars Share Virtual Lifeline 12/06

35 Honeymoons after the pink promise 12/06

Washington Post Foreign Service

January 14, 2005

In South Africa, Stigma Magnifies Pain of AIDS-
Many Still See Disease as Fatal, Shameful

by Craig Timberg
Soweto, South Africa – The very moment he learned he had contracted HIV, Sibusiso Mlangeni said he got his first taste of the stigma that comes with it. "You’ve been messing around," the nurse at the AIDS clinic scolded him. "You are HIV-positive." The words delivered a wallop of shock and shame for Mlangeni, 28, who had a steady girlfriend and hardly considered himself promiscuous. But the nurse’s comment, made one year ago, hinted at what lay ahead as news of the diagnosis spread.

His father, a retired security guard who had badgered Mlangeni about losing too much weight, declared, "You are going to die." His sister, a nurse, asked Mlangeni not to stand near her. Soon he was given his own set of dishes, a crude but common reaction from families under the false impression that HIV can spread through casual contact. "I had my own special plate," said Mlangeni, a volunteer at a hospice in this sprawling township outside Johannesburg. His bright, ready smile tightened into a grimace as he recalled his feelings of rejection. "I had my own special cup. I had my own special blanket, everything."

Last week, in announcing that his eldest son had died of complications of AIDS, Nelson Mandela urged South Africans to stop treating the disease as a sickness for which "people will go to hell and not to heaven." The announcement by Mandela, the former president and a national icon, was a highly public attempt to fight the stigma that has accompanied AIDS across South Africa, hampering both testing and timely treatment of the disease, even as it has become the country’s top killer, with 1,000 people a day dying from its ravages, according to the United Nations.

The message, like appeals made by other regional leaders in the past few years, was greeted with relief by people suffering from the affliction. Yet many interviewed in recent days said they were still treated as contaminated sinners by neighbors, friends and their own families. Some are ordered to use separate toilets or to wash outside. Others are banished. A study of 144 HIV patients at two Johannesburg hospitals found that 38 percent had not told a single family member that they had HIV, and 21 percent had not told their sexual partners. One in 10 said diagnosis of the disease was followed by suicidal thoughts. A small number of women reported that their partners beat them after learning of the presence of the infection.

Such violent reactions remain rare, although an AIDS activist was killed outside Cape Town in 2003 after she told a group of men who had gang-raped her that she had HIV. Another woman with AIDS was stoned to death in a township near Durban in 1998. Simple shunning is far more common and deeply hurtful, say those with the virus The reaction compounds feelings of terror and self-loathing that can accompany the diagnosis of a disease that many here believe, incorrectly, to be fatal in all cases and contracted exclusively through promiscuous sex.

Although heterosexual contact is the primary means of transmission throughout Africa, researchers say that HIV infection has now reached far beyond those who have multiple sex partners. In South Africa, according to U.N. estimates, one of every five people between 15 and 49 is infected with HIV. Among the most vulnerable, researchers said, are women with only one sexual partner — their husbands — who either have the virus when they marry or acquire it later through an extramarital affair. For these wives to insist on the use of condoms would mean forgoing pregnancy, the cornerstone of marriage according to most African traditions.

Thobi Segabi, a physician at Soweto Hospice, recalled a woman last year who spent four weeks there in increasing misery. Segabi asked whether something was troubling her and learned that years earlier the woman had left her husband abruptly after being told she had HIV.
The husband, who had never been told, visited the hospice soon after and spoke with his wife for the first time about her illness. The woman died the next day. "She had this heavy load that she hadn’t released," Segabi recalled. "She was blaming herself." As AIDS activists try to make the issue more visible and less shameful, T-shirts declaring "HIV Positive" have become a common sight throughout South Africa. Yet physicians, researchers and AIDS activists say the disease remains little understood even after years of public education campaigns.

Among families, an HIV infection is often kept secret.
South Africa’s newspapers are filled with death notices that refer euphemistically to a "prolonged illness." Pneumonia or tuberculosis, rather than AIDS, is often listed as the cause of death, which, while technically accurate, neglects the overriding point: that HIV led to the lung ailment. Contrary to popular belief here, AIDS is not necessarily fatal. A small but growing trickle of antiretroviral drugs is reaching those with AIDS in South Africa, allowing dramatically prolonged lives for the few people with access to the medicine. And the government, after years of resistance, is now offering the drugs at some public health clinics.

Yet most of the estimated 5 million South Africans infected with HIV have never even been tested for the virus
. Many of those who die of AIDS complications are unfamiliar with the illness and do not appear at hospitals until they are too sick to gain much benefit from potentially life-prolonging drugs, physicians say. And even those knowledgeable about HIV can find it difficult to tell others. Harry Nyathela, 30, an AIDS activist in Soweto, told a friend soon after the disease was diagnosed in him in 1998. The friend quickly accepted the news but requested that his wife not be told, fearing that she would ban Nyathela from the house. At his family home, Nyathela had to buy his own wash basin. One relative threw out a loaf of bread he had touched. Friends asked him to take home cups after he had used them.
"They did this because they didn’t understand," Nyathela said.

For Mlangeni, the rejection he encountered at his father’s house grew so painful that he moved out
. He and his father had never had an affectionate relationship, Mlangeni said, but he was comfortable in the large, lavish brick home they had shared for 22 years after his parents broke up. The HIV test changed that. His father virtually stopped speaking to him and locked the outer gate, saying he should no longer visit friends. After three weeks, Mlangeni moved into his mother’s one-room shack, because she accepted his sickness unconditionally.
Yet even in new surroundings, Mlangeni was tormented with thoughts of death and regret.

" The minute you sit down, you keep on blaming yourself," he said. "You’ve got to focus on the plans you had before. . . . You must not lose hope.

Mlangeni is now living with his girlfriend and has found a useful role tending to the hospice building and garden. With the help of sympathetic relatives and religious faith, he has come to accept that he has HIV. When he gets sicker, he said, he hopes to begin taking antiretrovirals. His relationship with his father, however, appears permanently fractured. After church one day this month, Mlangeni stopped by his old house. His father, outside working in the yard, gave him a perfunctory greeting. Mlangeni went inside for a glass of water. When he came back out, his father had disappeared.

BBC News

8 March 2005

Taking Gay Pride to South Africa’s black townships

by Alastair Leithead , Cape Town
Black South African society remains unwilling to accept gays.

Despite a decade of democracy and one of the most liberal constitutions in the world, South Africa still has trouble accommodating those who are black and gay. Watching the recent Gay Pride march through the streets of Cape Town, however, you may have got a different impression. Leading the procession were three open topped cars, and sprawled across their bonnets, Miss Gay Pride’s top three transvestites. Two of them were black, and even though South Africa has come a long way, that is something a little unusual.

It is the third year Cape Town has hosted a pride march, but again it was noticeable just how white-dominated the participants were. "Being black and gay is a very different place to being white and gay in Cape Town," said Juanita Jacobs, or JJ as she’s known, one of the Pride organisers.

Shebeen crawl

So this year the festival went a step further towards breaking racial barriers. "This year we decided to take Pride into the townships to engender understanding," said JJ. As a young black man I would need to be looking for a wife, making babies, and because I am not fulfilling those roles, society does not know how to deal with me.

"We wanted to bring the white South African Cape Town community and expose them to a section of the gay community they wouldn’t usually see." And so on the list of events was a gay shebeen crawl – a trip around some of the more liberal of the small bars that can be found scattered all over the black townships of the Cape Flats, outside the city. Township tours have been laid on for years for tourists keen to see the other side of life outside the beautiful beaches, huge shopping malls and beautiful scenery of the "Mother City".

But this is the first time a tour of gay pubs, or shebeens, has been organised.

Two extremes
" It’s exciting, I’ve never been here before. It’s wonderful, it’s good, it should – could – happen all the time," said one of the Capetonians on the trip. But it doesn’t – while white gay South Africans have been pretty much accepted, certainly in as sexually liberated a city as Cape Town, it is a different story in the black community.

White gays set out to discover the black gay scene
Africa Melane is a presenter on the radio station Cape Talk – he’s 27, gay, but did not join the Pride march this year. "I certainly don’t make any secrets about my lifestyle, but at the same time I don’t stand on top of Table Mountain and shout to the world: ‘Hey, this is who I am’," he said.

His family knows, but they have never talked about his sexuality – he says black African culture doesn’t accommodate homosexuality. "Tradition, ritual, family is paramount in any African culture out there, so as a young black man I would need to be looking for a wife, making babies, and because I am not fulfilling those roles, society does not know how to deal with me. "You risk not being part of the community, not being part of the family, not being part of society."

Africa Melane has seen two responses – friends becoming introverted, denying it to themselves, and some even committing suicide because of the pressure. Others go to the other extreme as transvestites or transsexuals. And in Nyanga township, some of the regulars were certainly not hiding their sexuality, with one guy bounding into a lavish dance routine.

As the drinks went down, so the social barriers followed suit. The five minibuses continued their three-bar tour with organisers mumbling about making this a regular event. There were also some foreign visitors on the tour and the observation was that there does not seem to be much mixing between black and white in the city – you do not see many black people in the gay bars.

A lot of people don’t come out to these areas because of fear – the same fears that fuel racism are the fears that fuel homophobia

Ronnie Ngalo owns one of the shebeens – he explained this was due to economic reasons. "It costs money to get to town on transport, to get into the bars and clubs, to buy drinks," he said. "We get people from the rural areas who come here after being chased away by their family – we create a new family here in the township. "There is still discrimination, our culture suppresses us, but gay people are here to stay."

JJ explained the thinking behind the shebeen crawl: "A lot of people don’t come out to these areas because of fear – the same fears that fuel racism are the fears that fuel homophobia and the idea of breaking those fears down and meeting the other half is what this is all about."

A lot of things are changing in South Africa, and fast. Old taboos are being broken and cultural barriers are coming down, but so far few people even in Cape Town can be openly proud of being black and gay. U.K.

May 18, 2005

South Africa high court weighs lesbian marriage case

by Ben Townley
A lesbian couple looking to challenge South Africa’s ban on same-sex marriage appeared in the country’s highest court Tuesday, calling for the law to be amended.

Marie Fourie and Cecilia Bonthuys told the Constitutional Court that a ban on their marriage is discriminatory. Their case was buoyed by a win in the country’s Supreme Court of Appeal, which agreed with them last year and ruled that legislation should be adapted to take the issue of sexual diversity into account and not discriminate against lesbian and gay people. The couple told the country’s South African Press Association that they "just want that little white piece of paper. We want it to be legal, legal, legal," Fourie reportedly told the court from the public gallery.

The government is fighting the claim, arguing that marriage should be restricted to heterosexual couples
. It says the appeal court ruling goes against what the South African public wants." Same-sex partnerships are a relatively new phenomena," Marumo Moerane, a legal representative from the Department of Home Affairs, reportedly told the court. "We don’t know whether single-sex relationships involve the idea of mutual support."

The case has seen widespread support from the country’s lesbian and gay community, which demonstrated outside the court on Tuesday.
The court has so far refused to suggest when it will give its verdict.

Women’s Project Officer
International Lesbian and Gay Association, Brussels

2 June 2005

New Publication on South African Gay and Lesbian Youth

GALA, an LGBT South African organisation will be launching a publication on South African Lesbian and Gay Youth. Please read below to obtain more information on this positive initiative. On June 11 the Johannesburg-based organisation Gay and Lesbian Archives (GALA) will launch a new publication and traveling exhibit that shares stories of gay and lesbian youth in South Africa, while promoting respect and tolerance in schools.

In Balancing Act: South African Gay and Lesbian Youth Speak Out, twenty-one young South Africans from a wide range of social backgrounds speak candidly about their experiences, hopes and dreams. Specifically written to be used in schools, the book contains insightful and useful teaching notes relating to the area of Life Orientation. The exhibition based on the book showcases a selection of extracts from 9 stories with photographs. "We created this resource to help address the high levels of discrimination and victimization being faced by gay and lesbian youth in schools," says GALA director Ruth Morgan, "anecdotal evidence tells us that these high levels of abuse result in many youth leaving school before completion."

For many young people in South Africa, coming to terms with their sexual orientation can be a very painful experience. Although guaranteed as a freedom in the national constitution, lack of acceptance by family and society is often a reality. "Sometimes I feel sad and lonely, like my family doesn’t love me. But I have to deal with the facts: it’s not easy to accept that your child is gay. There are very few parents who would, because of the stigma," says 17 year-old Sandile. The book explores the lives of gay youth in this country in a manner that challenges stereotypes and prejudices, and provides much needed information to young gay and lesbian people. The book not only focuses on the difficulties faced, but also the positive options and strategies adopted by well-adjusted young people – providing positive role models that readers can relate to as they begin to make their own life choices. It is hoped that the book and accompanying traveling exhibition will play an important role in an ongoing process of human rights-based sexuality education for young South Africans.

Since the experiences described in Balancing Act are related to issues affecting all youth, whatever their orientation, the book and exhibition are relevant to all young people growing up in this country. By producing a positive, life-affirming book and exhibition, GALA hopes to promote much -needed openness on issues of sexual orientation, in the interests of reducing homophobic prejudice.

Established in January 1997, the Gay and Lesbian Archives of South Africa (GALA) is an independent project of the South African History Archive (SAHA) which forms part of the Historical Papers collection based at the William Cullen Library in the University of the Witwatersrand. GALA provides a permanent institutional home for the wide range of historical and archival material relating to gay and lesbian experience in South Africa. It aims to be a source of information to the public and to serve as a catalyst for generating other, previously silenced community histories and personal narratives.

The book was written by Karen Martin and Joanne Bloch, and published by New Africa Education. It is being translated in Xhosa and Afrikaans by the Project for the Study of Alternative Education in South Africa. For more information about the book or launch event, contact: Ruth Morgan, Director OR Anthony Manion Gay and Lesbian Archives (GALA) OR Telephone 011 717 4239/ 1963 Deborah Walter Project Manager/ Editorial Director Soul Beat Africa


September 24, 2005

Thousands celebrate Gay Pride

Johannesburg – Several thousand people streamed through the streets of Johannesburg on Saturday in the 16th annual Gay Pride march themed "the right to be, the freedom to express". On foot or dancing on board buses and trucks, a largely white crowd made its festive way through the city under a blazing sun. Young women on one truck held placards saying: "Same sex marriage is African", "Viva same sex marriage, viva", "I am a very traditional woman, that’s why I support same-sex marriage" and "Equality in marriage is one step to real liberation".

The march began at 16:00 outside the Constitutional Court buildings, the site of a former prison where Nelson Mandela was once held. In May, the Constitutional Court, South Africa’s highest court, began deliberations on same-sex marriage, prompted by the government’s appeal against a lower court’s landmark ruling that people of the same sex had a legal right to wed. The Constitutional Court is due to issue its own ruling in the coming months.

South Africa’s constitution, adopted two years after the country’s first multiracial elections in 1994, explicitly bans all discrimination based on sexual orientation. This clause puts the country at odds with the rest of the continent, where homosexuality is largely taboo and, in some states, harshly punished. Many African leaders, in particular Zimbabwean President Robert Mugabe, frequently speak out vehemently against gays and lesbians. Another Gay Pride march takes place each February in Cape Town.

United Press International/BBC

December 1, 2005

South African court allows gay marriages

Johannesburg, South Africa – South Africa’s highest court has ruled in favor of same-sex marriages banned under current law, reports the BBC. The Constitutional Court, outlawing discrimination against gays and lesbians, ordered that parliament amend marriage laws to allow same-sex weddings within a year, the report said. The court also said the definition of marriage must be changed from a "union between a man and a woman" to a "union between two persons." A lawyer for the Lesbian and Gay Equality project said he was disappointed the Constitutional Court did not order the immediate implementation of its ruling.

Mass gay weddings planned

December 05, 2005

by Xoliswa Zulu
Gay and lesbian couples will make the most of the landmark ruling by the Constitutional Court that legalises same-sex marriage. KwaZulu-Natal, the Western Cape and Gauteng have been earmarked to host Africa’s first-ever mass gay wedding ceremonies next December to officially celebrate the official sanctioning of these relationships in the country. The chairperson of the South African Mass Gay and Lesbian Wedding Ceremony, Johann Ludick, said the celebration would be regarded as both ceremonial and official.

"The three planned ceremonies will take place at outdoor venues, such as stadiums, to enable us to accommodate a minimum of 5 000 gay and lesbian couples. The weddings will take place over a period of 72 hours at three selected venues to be announced in February, from a shortlist of nine."

21 February, 2006

Lesbian murder prompts homophobia fears

The murder of a lesbian in Cape Town has led campaigners in South Africa to warn of a spike in anti-gay feeling in the Rainbow Nation.
Zoliswa Nkonyana, 19, was stabbed and stoned to death in a township just outside the city earlier this month, according to press reports.
Gay rights groups say that the death is likely to be a result of homophobia, but warned that the number of lesbian and gay deaths in the country could be set to rise.

Additionally, lesbians are increasingly subjected to physical abuse, including rape, a women’s rights group told the IRIN news service.
Other gay rights groups, including the Triangle Project, say lesbians are raped as an attempt to cure them of their sexuality and to stop them challenging gender stereotypes. "Lesbians who mimic men are seen to be challenging male superiority. Rape and violence against lesbians is common,” Dawn Betteridge told IRIN. “The men who perpetrate such crimes see rape as curative and as an attempt to show women their place in society."

Police are still investigating the murder of Nkonyana, but campaigners say her death has increased fear in what is regarded as Africa’s most liberal country. South Africa was the first country in the world to enshrine protection against discrimination based on sexuality in its constitution, in its post-Apartheid era. It was also the first on the continent – and one of the few in the world, to legalise gay marriage after its Supreme Court ruled a ban on same-sex unions would be unconstitutional.

Cape Times

February 20, 2006

Historic march highlights lesbian’s killing

by Leanne Raymond
The brutal murder of a young lesbian woman in Khayelitsha two weeks ago took centre stage as 150 Gay Pride supporters strutted their stuff through the streets of Guguletu on Sunday, in the first Gay Pride march to take place in a township. Organiser of the event Ronnie Ngalo said the murder of Zoliswa Nkonyana, 19, showed the importance of events that increased the awareness of gays and lesbians in the townships. "People believe to be gay is un-African, (but) that is discrimination against us," said Ngalo.

‘People believe to be gay is un-African’
He said gays and lesbians were here to stay and people should support and protect them. Police spokesperson, Elliot Sinyangana, said Nkonyana was "stabbed and stoned to death by a mob of young people on February 4". Police were still investigating the reason for her murder, said Sinyangana, and no one has been arrested. "It is difficult because the people involved are not known in that area," said Sinyangana.

Nkonyana was a member of a lesbian soccer club, the Wini Club. According to a Sunday newspaper report, she was with a 17-year-old lesbian friend when another woman began taunting them, saying they "wanted to get raped".

‘Nkonyana was killed in sight of her family’
They told the woman they were lesbians and to leave them alone. The woman then fetched "about 20 youngish guys" who began beating them, said Nkonyana’s friend, who was too terrified to be named. Nkonyana’s friend managed to run away. Nkonyana ran towards her house but the mob threw bricks at her until she was lying on the ground. "But they just carried on," her friend said.

At Sunday’s march, a brass band played as the group of dancing people followed Ngalo who was waving the gay pride flag brought from Amsterdam for the city’s Pride festival. Treatment Action Campaign representatives and traditional Xhosa women marched along in support of the campaign. Russell Southey, Pride festival director, said Nkonyana’s murder highlighted the high level of homophobia in black communities.

"Hopefully marches like this will bring about social change," said Southey. "In white communities… gay people are accepted into society and protected. But in black communities the gay pride cause is extremely relevant. Gay people in black communities need to know they are not alone. Nkonyana was killed in sight of her family, imagine living with that threat."

Southey said the three other lesbian girls photographed by the Sunday newspaper feared for their lives. He said in a previous homophobic murder, two people pictured with the victim in the newspaper were raped. "One has died of Aids," he said. Bulelwa Panda, an organiser, said she was excited about the march, although the turnout was not very good. As they marched past a church, Oscar Mashicila, the church warden, said: "Everyone must respect each other."

February 22, 2006

Taking Gay Pride to SA’s townships

Despite a decade of democracy and one of the most liberal constitutions in the world, South Africa still has trouble accommodating those who are black and gay. Watching the recent Gay Pride march through the streets of Cape Town, however, you may have got a different impression. Leading the procession were three open topped cars, and sprawled across their bonnets, Miss Gay Pride’s top three transvestites. Two of them were black, and even though South Africa has come a long way, that is something a little unusual.

It is the third year Cape Town has hosted a pride march, but again it was noticeable just how white-dominated the participants were. "Being black and gay is a very different place to being white and gay in Cape Town," said Juanita Jacobs, or JJ as she’s known, one of the Pride organisers.

Shebeen crawl
So this year the festival went a step further towards breaking racial barriers. "This year we decided to take Pride into the townships to engender understanding," said JJ. "We wanted to bring the white South African Cape Town community and expose them to a section of the gay community they wouldn’t usually see." And so on the list of events was a gay shebeen crawl – a trip around some of the more liberal of the small bars that can be found scattered all over the black townships of the Cape Flats, outside the city. Township tours have been laid on for years for tourists keen to see the other side of life outside the beautiful beaches, huge shopping malls and beautiful scenery of the " Mother City". But this is the first time a tour of gay pubs, or shebeens, has been organised.

Two extremes
"It’s exciting, I’ve never been here before. It’s wonderful, it’s good, it should – could – happen all the time," said one of the Capetonians on the trip. But it doesn’t – while white gay South Africans have been pretty much accepted, certainly in as sexually liberated a city as Cape Town, it is a different story in the black community.

Africa Melane is a presenter on the radio station Cape Talk – he’s 27, gay, but did not join the Pride march this year. "I certainly don’t make any secrets about my lifestyle, but at the same time I don’t stand on top of Table Mountain and shout to the world: ‘Hey, this is who I am’," he said. His family knows, but they have never talked about his sexuality – he says black African culture doesn’t accommodate homosexuality.
"Tradition, ritual, family is paramount in any African culture out there, so as a young black man I would need to be looking for a wife, making babies, and because I am not fulfilling those roles, society does not know how to deal with me. "You risk not being part of the community, not being part of the family, not being part of society."

Africa Melane has seen two responses – friends becoming introverted, denying it to themselves, and some even committing suicide because of the pressure. Others go to the other extreme as transvestites or transsexuals. And in Nyanga township, some of the regulars were certainly not hiding their sexuality, with one guy bounding into a lavish dance routine.


As the drinks went down, so the social barriers followed suit. The five minibuses continued their three-bar tour with organisers mumbling about making this a regular event. There were also some foreign visitors on the tour and the observation was that there does not seem to be much mixing between black and white in the city – you do not see many black people in the gay bars. Ronnie Ngalo owns one of the shebeens – he explained this was due to economic reasons. "It costs money to get to town on transport, to get into the bars and clubs, to buy drinks," he said. "We get people from the rural areas who come here after being chased away by their family – we create a new family here in the township. "There is still discrimination, our culture suppresses us, but gay people are here to stay."

JJ explained the thinking behind the shebeen crawl: "A lot of people don’t come out to these areas because of fear – the same fears that fuel racism are the fears that fuel homophobia and the idea of breaking those fears down and meeting the other half is what this is all about."
A lot of things are changing in South Africa, and fast. Old taboos are being broken and cultural barriers are coming down, but so far few people even in Cape Town can be openly proud of being black and gay.

February 24, 2006

Triangle Project Attacks South African Times for Lesbian Endangerment

by Danny McCoy
Cape Town, South Africa – South African gay rights group the Triangle Project is voicing extreme disappointment with Sunday Times for publishing a picture of four lesbians after one of them was beaten to death in an apparent hate crime. The picture made clear the identity of three friends of 19-year-old Zoliswa Nkonyana. She was beaten to death with bricks and stones in front of her stepfather for being a lesbian by a gang of men outside her home on February 4. A spokesperson for the Triangle Project said they had warned the Times about hate crimes against gay and lesbian people in the traditional township areas, but the picture of Nkonyana along with three members of her lesbian football club was published anyway.

“ Publishing a photo of three lesbians, without their consent, accompanying an article on hate crimes against lesbians is highly irresponsible – especially considering that one of their friends was killed by a mob in their community," said Glenn de Swaart, Triangle Project spokesperson.
Sunday Times editor Mondli Makhanya issued this response: “Our intention was to highlight a crime against the gay community, and it was never our intention to cause further hurt. We’re happy to correspond with the gay community on this issue.” The Triangle Project said it wanted to further convey that Nkonyana’s death shows that violent crimes, such as rape or assault on the grounds of sexual orientation, remain a reality in Cape Town. This week the Cape Town Pride Festival kicks off, culminating in the Pride March through the streets of Cape Town.

Gay.Com/ Network

6 March 2006

Human Rights Watch
says South Africa must protect lesbians

An international human rights group has urged South Africa to guard against attacks and abuse directed at lesbians.
New York-based Human Rights Watch (HRW) raised concern about the issue on Friday, following news that a 19-year-old lesbian was brutally killed last month by a mob. The victim, Zoliswa Nkonyana, was walking on February 4th with a lesbian friend in the Khayelitsha township near Cape Town when a group of young men accosted them. The assailants beat Nkonyana with golf clubs, threw bricks at her and stabbed her, according to HRW. Nkonyana’s friend outran the mob and escaped. She remains in hiding and fears for her life, the human rights group said.

"Lesbians in South Africa face abuse and violence simply for not fitting social expectations of how women should look and act," said Jessica Stern, researcher for Human Rights Watch’s Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Rights Program. "Ten years ago, South Africa enacted the world’s first constitution to protect against discrimination based on sexual orientation," Stern said in a prepared statement. "Today it’s both tragic and telling that Zoliswa Nkonyana still could not be safe in her own neighbourhood." In several African countries, homosexuality is outlawed or considered "un-African". Last week in Cameroon two men received one-year jail terms for having sex with each other. South Africa, however, is poised to be the first African country to legalise same-sex marriage, after the high court ruled in December that it is unconstitutional to deny civil marriage rights to lesbian and gay couples.

"Zoliswa’s murder tragically shows that violence against lesbians continues," Stern said. "The South African government must promote equality and diversity through public education to ensure lesbians’ right to security."

Gay Sport South Africa – GSSA:
one of the largest gay and lesbian networks in South Africa



Johannesburg – Since December 2002, GSSA was founded by a group of participants returning from Sydney Gay Games and has since, grown into one of the largest gay and lesbian networks in South Africa. The network caters specifically for those individuals who have an interest in sport in various capacities, and currently has almost 1500 members nationwide. The principle was to create a forum for those with a sporting interest, to be able to connect and interact with one another. Despite the collapse of many of the sporting organisation in South Africa over the last few years, it was still perceived that there was an interest in sport or a need for sporting organisation/ bodies/ groups.

The circle works countrywide and in any sporting discipline, attempting to place an individual in touch with an existing organisation/ group should there be one, or attempt to bring together people in a specific area should there appear to be a need there. As a result there are now, for example, sports co-ordinators for various sports in Durban, Cape Town, Port Elizabeth and Bloemfontein (none of these had previously had strong sports groups). The needs may be various, from social to fitness to competitive to simply wanting a training partner and that is dependant on the individual member and their willingness to take this initiative and make it their own. GSSA retains a co-ordination/ facilitation function amongst its members, encouraging grass roots development but has avoided becoming, itself, an official organisation.

GSSA has also partnered with various organisations in an attempt to spread the word and encourage other people to join the network, and hence making it easier to connect likeminded sporting individuals. With this in mind has resulted in an association with a resurgent TOGS (under the new Chairpersonship of Shane Blakebrough), since TOGS retains the only South African and African membership of the FGG (Federation of Gay Games – holder of the right to the Gay Games). This allows for the second focus of GSSA, the increased participation of South African LGBTI sporting persons in international events such as the Gay Games, OUTgames or Eurogames. If you have any queries please contact GaryC on,,2-1225-1242_1895251,00.html

March 10, 2006

SA’s gay cinema ‘going places’–one of the biggest events on South Africa’s gay cultural calenda

Johannesburg – For 12 years, the "Out in Africa" film festival has been one of the biggest events on South Africa’s gay cultural calendar.
Now, its organisers hope to take "queer cinema" to other African countries, where many gay people still live in fear of being persecuted for their sexuality – much less get a chance to see people like themselves in films. The festival already distributes free DVDs in Namibia, Botswana and Zimbabwe and its organisers plan to add six more African countries to that list by the end of the year.

The organisers get permission from the filmmakers to duplicate movies free of charge; they are then passed on to gay groups in each country for their own mini-festivals or any other use they see fit. Festival director Nodi Murphy said the enthusiasm with which "Out in Africa" has been received in small-town South Africa, where the event is still in its infancy, showed there was definitely a hunger for gay films even in out of the way places. "You go to small communities where people are just thirsting for knowledge, they’re thirsting for images of themselves. They’re so appreciative. They’re ready to celebrate," Murphy told Reuters.

These "satellite festivals" in South Africa initially got off to a slow start when the films were screened in cinemas, where many gay people afraid of revealing their sexuality were too afraid to go, Murphy said. They then decided to work with local gay groups to spread the word about the events and screen the films in places that were less in the public eye – in one case in a hotel owned by a gay-friendly straight man.

Black gays and lesbians

"Out In Africa" currently hosts its premier festivals in Johannesburg and Cape Town but in recent years it has taken its offerings to some of the remotest towns in the country. South Africa’s post-apartheid constitution is alone in Africa with its protection of gay rights. But Murphy said outside the main urban centres, where gay clubs and bars flourish, the closet door is still firmly shut for many gay men and lesbians.

She said one year organisers had planned to put up a festival in Soweto, South Africa’s biggest black township, but some gay people were afraid of being "outed" to their community. Showing just how real the threat of violence can be, a 19-year old lesbian was last month beaten, stoned and stabbed to death by a gang in the Khayelitsha township near Cape Town.

Murphy said poorer townships also did not have the facilities to screen films. This year they are hoping to change that by bringing township dwellers to the swish suburban malls where most festival-goers hail from. Three thousand free tickets will be given away through gay groups in townships. The recipients will be shuttled to and from the main festivals in Johannesburg and Cape Town.

"I would never despise it but our greatest supporters are white men and then after that white women. We must be representative of South Africa and the gay and lesbian community that we serve and of course there are a great number of black gays and lesbians," Murphy said.
"The truth of the matter is with the economic circumstance that we still have in this country the majority of black people don’t have the disposal income necessary to attend a film festival of this kind or of any kind." Cape Town, South Africa Bureau

April 20, 2006

20% Of South African Gay Students Raped

by Mark Levy
Cape Town, South Africa – A study of LGBT teens in South Africa’s KwaZulu-Natal province has sent shockwaves throughout the country. Focusing on young people in the municipalities of Pietermaritzburg and Durban researchers found that 20 percent of gay and bisexual teenage males and 19% of lesbian and bisexual female teens had been raped or sexually assaulted. They also found that one third of all LGBT students had been physically assaulted at school because of their sexuality. The study was conducted for Out LGBT Well-being and the Durban Lesbian and Gay Health and Community and Health Center. The researchers found that black and Indian students were more likely to be victimized because of their sexuality than were white students.

"More alarming is the victimization by teachers and principals," said Pietermaritzburg Gay & Lesbian Network convener Anthony Waldhausen. "The network will go out of its way to protect the gay and lesbian community and is looking at ways to provide hope for the many that are victimized." The study found that homophobia was so severe in the province that many students refused health care because they did not trust medical staff. The researchers noted that this often had the added concern that HIV transmission to the victims was not determined. The situation in the province is so severe the researchers said in their report that almost one in five LGBT students said they had attempted suicide.

South Africa is one of the few countries in the world with equality for gays, lesbians and the transgendered enshrined in its constitution but the report noted that equality has not found its way down to the grassroots of society.

Lesotho takes HIV test on the road

by Stephanie Nolen
Maseru, Lesotho – Teams of people will start going door-to-door across Lesotho next month to give everyone over the age of 12 the chance to have an on-the-spot HIV test. They will approach people at the small stone houses where they live in the mountains, in the industrial zone factories where they stitch Gap sweaters, the churches where they go to mass and the mess halls where soldiers eat.

Lesotho is calling it ‘Know Your Status,’ an initiative of the government and the World Health Organization. Modelled on mass immunization campaigns such as those for polio, the HIV testing effort will cost $12.5-million (U.S.), most of which has yet to be raised from international donors, and run until the end of next year. Organizers hope it will resolve one of the stickiest problems of responding to AIDS in Africa: the stigma and fear of the disease, which is still so great that many people don’t get tested. Parents won’t take sick children for HIV tests, and even doctors and nurses fail to suggest testing for the most obvious AIDS patient, out of a desire to protect "confidentiality" or to avoid the implied shame.

It is estimated that 265,000 people, or one in three adults in Lesotho, are living with HIV-AIDS and 50,000 are already so sick they need antiretroviral treatment. But only 72,000 people have ever been tested for HIV, even though the government has been committed, since 2004, to providing free ARV drugs to those who need them. The Ministry of Health says that just 12 per cent of women and 9 per cent of men know their HIV status. The Lesotho campaign will rely on HIV tests that produce results in minutes. These are cheap, about $2 a test, and use a finger-prick of blood rather than a syringe, so are more easily administered by lay people. Studies show that a third to half of people don’t come back if they must collect their test results days or weeks later.

Community members will be asked to decide themselves how they wish to be tested — whether, for instance, they want to be tested by residents of the village or by outsiders to preserve confidentiality. Key to the plan is the idea that no one will be offered testing without a full range of counselling, support, prevention and care options being available, whatever each person’s diagnosis.

"The brilliance of Know Your Status is what’s embedded is that you cannot be more aggressive or proactive about asking people to get tested unless both treatment and prevention are in place," said Jim Yong Kim, the former head of the AIDS directorate at the WHO, now a director for the medical aid agency Partners in Health, who helped pilot the plan. Lesotho’s plan recently won the praise of former U.S. president Bill Clinton, whose charitable foundation is a major player in the world of AIDS care. "I think there needs to be a total rethinking of this testing position in the AIDS community and a real push for this," Mr. Clinton said. He noted that 90 per cent of those believed to be HIV-positive in the developing world do not know their HIV status.

In Africa, where HIV is primarily a disease of heterosexual, married people, and in particular in countries where the prevalence rate is more than 15 per cent of the population, an increasing number of people argue the "human-rights-based approach" to testing is ill-fitting. They say it needs to be replaced with a public-health model in which HIV is treated more like diabetes, just one more disease for which a sick person is routinely screened. Lesotho’s campaign has a public-health ethos, treating HIV like a communicable disease to be tracked down and controlled, but it still makes an exception of HIV by putting heavy emphasis on confidentiality and counselling, because there is such great stigma attached to the illness here. Lesotho’s bold plan is not without its critics, who say it looks great on paper, but that it is unrealistic to think that a few months of community education will be enough to erode that pervasive shame.

"You will agree to test and they will tell you the result and they will leave you with no psycho-social support, they will just leave you," predicted Makokoli Nthinya, program officer for an AIDS support organization called Positive Action. "People don’t disclose even to the closest, closest person taking care of them because they say, ‘When I tell, I will get no support.’ The support systems are not adequate." The government says its plan to hire 3,500 new community-health workers, and train thousands of volunteers, will counter this problem. But "then you have people in the mountains with no access to ARVs; they are hours from a clinic or they have no money for transport," Ms. Nthinya worried.

In theory, treatment will be available everywhere before people are tested. But the glacially slow pace of treatment rollout — just 6,000 people were put on the drugs in the past 18 months — raises serious questions about how well a decentralized treatment program will run, and suggests that testing will either proceed equally slowly or that HIV-positive people won’t have easy access to the drugs. Conversations with people ostensibly already trained to be "peer educators" in communities outside the capital reveal a vast level of ignorance of HIV transmission, and such pervasive fear that even those who have been tapped to "mobilize" people for testing say they would not themselves take the test.

While the WHO speaks carefully of a "universal offer of testing," the reality is that people in AIDS organizations, clinics and on the streets in Lesotho use the words "routine," "mandatory" and "compulsory" interchangeably. That produces a widespread feeling here that the testing will be, if not forced, then socially obligatory. In a tightly knit culture such as Lesotho’s, the "encouragement" of a person of influence such as a chief or a priest — or even a husband to his wife and children — can amount to coercion, critics say. "There is this kind of pie-in-the-sky notion that in the name of public health, you can test everyone door-to-door without serious consequences, even violent ones, for the individual," said Rachel Cohen, field co-ordinator for a Médecins sans frontières (Doctors Without Borders) AIDS-treatment program in Lesotho.

". . . But what worries me about so-called universal testing is, what will be the long-term effects on people who get tested and aren’t really prepared for their results because they won’t get adequate counselling? What will be the consequences for women who test positive and are blamed by their husbands and families, something we hear about on a regular basis here? And what will be the penalties for those who are offered an HIV test and say no? And what will be the penalties for those that are offered an HIV test and say no for whatever reason?"

But the WHO’s Loretta Hieber-Girardet said that the plan includes a provision to train "human-rights monitoring groups in every community . . . who will be trained in how to assure informed consent, volunteerism, and guard against any potential coercion." Monitors, like those from an independent electoral commission, will oversee all testing, she said, and this will be enough to ensure that people are not overtly coerced or more subtly pressured. Lesotho hopes this campaign will be a major incentive not only for those who are sick to seek care, she said, but also that those who are positive will take steps not to spread the disease — although AIDS research has found little proof that knowing their HIV status changes people’s sexual practices. No one with the Ministry of Health was prepared to discuss the once-off nature of this exercise. Everyone will, in theory, be tested for HIV now. But what if they get infected next week? How often will the testing be repeated? And what of the risk of sowing complacency in those who are tested and told they are negative?

Ms. Hieber-Girardet argued that challenges notwithstanding, Know Your Status will have an impact. "In a country like Lesotho, where a third of the population is HIV-positive, not doing anything is not an option," she said.

The New York Times

August 6, 2006

When a Pill Is Not Enough

by Tina Rosenberg
In the whole AIDS epidemic, no question is more heartbreaking and confounding than this: Why would a mother choose to condemn her baby to death? Mothers with H.I.V., the virus that causes AIDS, pass it along to their newborns at birth 25 to 30 percent of the time, and in poor countries, some half a million babies a year are born with H.I.V. But the rate of transmission can be cut to 14 percent with a simple and cheap program: H.I.V.-positive mothers take a single pill of an antiretroviral called nevirapine when they begin labor, and their newborns are given nevirapine drops. At the Alexandra Health Center and University Clinic in South Africa, pregnant women can get nevirapine free. The antenatal clinic is a complex of low brick buildings on a pretty hospital campus in the middle of the township of Alexandra, a bleak neighborhood on the outskirts of Johannesburg. The clinic has a doctor only on Thursdays, but an advanced midwife and two nurses attend a crowd of patients every day. I had been in South Africa for four days when I visited the clinic, and I had already seen the stigma that AIDS still carries in the country — those dozens of funerals every Saturday in the townships? Oh, say family members, it was asthma, or tuberculosis, or “a long illness.” I thought I understood how powerful denial could be. But I was unprepared for what Pauline Molotsi, a registered nurse at the clinic, told me.

About twice a week, a woman who has tested H.I.V.-positive begins labor at the clinic but refuses to take the nevirapine that might save her baby’s life. “She says, ‘Oh, no, I’m not positive,”’ Molotsi told me. Even though the only person who will know her H.I.V. status is the nurse — who knows already, since she is holding the patient’s chart — the woman won’t take the incriminating pill. “They have not accepted their status,” Molotsi said. “They are still in denial.” In most of the world, the biggest reason so many babies are born with the AIDS virus is that their governments do not offer nevirapine; because of shortages of health-care personnel, in many countries this program, like all AIDS programs, is available only in urban hospitals. But in South Africa, there’s a different problem. Nevirapine is widely available, yet more than 70,000 babies a year are born there with H.I.V. The government can get nevirapine, condoms and AIDS treatment out to the most remote corners of the country — by truck or wheelbarrow, to modern hospitals and to clinics with no electricity. But it cannot penetrate what has become the most difficult terrain in AIDS work: the insides of people’s heads.

A significant minority of women in South Africa refuse to take an AIDS test. It’s not only that they do not want to confront painful facts that could lie buried a while longer. It’s also that being tested can be dangerous. At the Alexandra clinic, I listened to a tall young man named Vernon as he gave pretest group counseling to about two dozen pregnant woman. “Think about your baby before you think about yourself,” he urged them. He assured them the results of their H.I.V. tests would be confidential but encouraged the women to tell their families and partners. “Don’t hide it. Don’t use the phone — tell him face to face. You use the phone, he will hunt you down. Try to prepare him. Some people are very violent. He will beat you. But when he’s alone, he will think about it. If anything happens to you, your family knows you went to tell him your H.I.V. status and never came home.” This speech seemed unlikely to encourage many women to be tested. But it obviously reflected reality. Prudence Mabele, who works for a feminist organization, told me about a woman whose husband greeted her disclosure by pouring a kettle of boiling water over her.

Other women end up infecting their babies through breast feeding because they cannot follow the clinic’s advice to bottle-feed only — tantamount in some areas to announcing you have H.I.V. The very present danger posed by disclosure outweighs the future risk that the baby will get sick. And there are those whose denial is so deep it engulfs them. “Labor is already a stressful environment,” says Macharia Kamau, a Kenyan who is Unicef’s representative in South Africa. “You are pregnant, poor, vulnerable, marginalized, uneducated. At that point, what do you rely on? What your mother told you when you left home? Your cultural beliefs — or this stranger who’s standing there saying, ‘Take this pill?”’

As AIDS passes the quarter-century mark, in several countries the epidemic appears to be declining. South Africa is not one of them. In 1990, South Africa and Thailand both had H.I.V. prevalence rates in adults of less than 1 percent. Today, Thailand’s rate is 1.4 percent. But in South Africa, AIDS exploded in the 1990’s, and now 18.8 percent of adults are infected — and the number is still rising, though very slowly. Last year 300,000 new South Africans were infected with H.I.V. At the Alexandra Health Center, about 60 percent of women test positive. Choose any two 15-year-olds in South Africa; the odds say one of them will get AIDS.

South Africa is not even the worst of it. In Botswana, 24.1 percent of adults have H.I.V., and in tiny Swaziland, a third of all adults do. AIDS rates in southern Africa are far higher than they are anywhere else in the world. No one really knows why. South Africa has astronomical rates of sexual violence — more than a quarter of the time, a young woman’s first sexual experience is coerced — and a strong culture of male entitlement to sex, but so do many other countries. Much of the blame may go to apartheid, which kept male workers in hostels and their families in villages far away. Similar geographical dislocations come from mining, southern Africa’s main industry. Separating families encourages people to maintain ongoing relationships in two places. This is more dangerous than serial monogamous relationships, as H.I.V. is far more contagious when freshly caught.

South Africa’s post-apartheid government, besieged with problems, largely ignored AIDS. As president, Nelson Mandela did not publicly speak in South Africa on AIDS until 1998, more than three years into his term. Then came spectacular irrationality — the government of Thabo Mbeki spent years insisting AIDS was a Western plot, that the drugs were poison, that it was better to use African “cures,” that all those people were dying of something else. Now the public troublemaking of government officials has died down. What has replaced it is not the crusade so badly needed but just an official silence.

In the last few years, however, South Africans have forced their government to begin saving lives despite itself. The country is now spending millions to provide free antiretroviral drugs to AIDS patients, equip maternity clinics with nevirapine and run prevention campaigns. South Africa is successfully pushing services out to its people. But that doesn’t mean people always use them. Mothers sometimes reject nevirapine. People decline AIDS tests. Some sick people refuse to take free antiretrovirals. Some orphans will starve — even though help is available — rather than make the shameful admission that their parents died of AIDS. And of course, millions of people who know better continue to risk their lives every time they have sex.

All over the world, human psychology, local custom and the pressures of poverty are AIDS’s best friends. None of this should be foreign to Americans. We know we should quit smoking. We know we should go have that lump checked out. We know we should give up the French fries. But we don’t. In America, as around the world, a good amount of sickness and death is at least in part self-inflicted. In all aspects of health care, the challenge of providing not just solutions but ones patients will embrace is only now beginning to get attention. We are accustomed to thinking of noncompliance as the patient’s fault. But when a pregnant woman chooses to keep the nevirapine tablet in her pocket, the real failing belongs to the health system, which did not consider what would help her to follow medical advice. Such thinking is always crucial for health professionals but never more so than with AIDS, a disease that is shrouded in the dark and forbidden — sex, drug use, betrayal, rejection, death, rape, the struggles of intimate relationships — and that primarily hits the notoriously irrational young.

But the AIDS establishment has not yet assumed this challenge. “The technology is doing O.K., it’s moving,” says Peter Piot, executive director of the United Nations’ AIDS agency, Unaids. “But we have grossly, grossly neglected the social, cultural and personal stuff that makes it work.”

In a bland corporate research office in a strip mall in the Johannesburg suburbs one day late last spring, American and South African investigators were intently trying to prove Piot wrong. They were sitting behind a two-way mirror, watching five young women from Soweto talk about vaginal gel. The research office, normally employed to assess South Africans’ views on laundry detergent or breakfast cereal, was now the site of a series of focus groups designed to solve one of the biggest problems in AIDS prevention: the failure of the condom.

It is a social failure, not a mechanical one. Condoms prevent AIDS transmission quite well when people use them consistently. But men would rather not, and in Africa men usually call the shots. One of the most chilling findings of AIDS researchers is that marriage can be a risk factor. Studies in Kenya and Zambia found that young, married, monogamous women had higher rates of AIDS infection than sexually active single women of the same age; if condom use is hard for single women to negotiate, it is nearly impossible for married women. Even women who know their husbands are unfaithful cannot demand condoms, for to do so indicates a lack of trust. Husbands can get violent, or accuse the woman of infidelity. Condoms are also not an option for couples who wish to conceive. Women need a method of H.I.V. protection that they can control, that does not impede fertility and that men do not object to. +

It does not exist — yet. But one form of it, a vaginal microbicide, may be available within five years. The Johannesburg focus groups were designed to test three different gels, for use once a day, that may someday contain an ingredient that kills H.I.V. before it can infect the woman. The sessions were run by the International Partnership for Microbicides (I.P.M.), which is based near Washington. I.P.M. scientists realize that creating an effective medicine is just half the battle, and so they are taking a proactive approach to marketing the gel; before the microbicide’s active ingredient has even been invented, researchers have spent years figuring out how to get women in a variety of cultures to use it.

“A microbicide could be marketed as a sexual aid, or as something to make a woman feel more attractive inside and out,” Dr. Zeda Rosenberg, I.P.M.’s C.E.O., told me when I first met her in 2004. She was still puzzling it out when I spoke to her this year in South Africa. “Maybe H.I.V. prevention would be a secondary selling point,” she said. “This could be a lubricant that stops H.I.V. If the product made sex great, they would use it even if there were a trust issue.”

The focus groups were a chance for I.P.M.’s researchers to hear from their target market. Five young women from Soweto, all paid to participate in the study, sat around a table laden with platters of food and chatted in Zulu, Sotho and English about the gels, which they had been using for the last three weeks. The moderator asked whether they would want to use the gels to avoid getting H.I.V. All responded with enthusiasm. “I would recommend it to women who are married but do not trust their husbands,” said a participant. Just as important, they talked about how they handled the issue with their boyfriends. “I didn’t tell my boyfriend, but he noticed something different,” said Dimakatso, a young-looking girl with a ponytail. She explained to him what she was using, and it was no problem.

But most women preferred stealth — and it worked. Some didn’t tell because South Africans don’t normally discuss sex. Others said their boyfriends were superstitious. “He will think I am using something for witchcraft,” said one woman. Overall, the women preferred the gel whose texture was easiest to hide from their sexual partners.

Women’s groups have been talking about a microbicide for more than a decade, since it became obvious that AIDS was developing into a woman’s disease. But the rest of the world wasn’t listening. In the late 1990’s, Rosenberg was senior scientist for H.I.V.-prevention research at the National Institutes of Health. She, along with some others, tried to focus money and research on developing an AIDS-prevention product that women could control. “It was difficult to get people’s attention,” she says. “It was not considered interesting scientifically. It was seen as a product-development issue, not a scientific problem. Scientists in drug and cosmetic companies don’t get papers published.” Research was slow to get moving. Rosenberg left N.I.H. and eventually became C.E.O. of I.P.M. It is one of several organizations working to develop a microbicide.

For a microbicide, the traditional public-health approach — invent it, put it out there and tell people to use it — won’t cut it. Nearly as important as whether it kills H.I.V. is whether a microbicide feels acceptable, whether it can be used discreetly if necessary and how it is packaged and promoted. Dr. Mark Mitchnick, the group’s senior scientific consultant, worked on sunscreens and other products before switching to AIDS prevention. “One thing I learned with sunscreen is that people will often need a second reason to buy,” he says. “You want people to use sunscreen because it protects against melanoma. But people buy it because it prevents wrinkles.”

“The cosmetics industry can get women to use all sorts of topical products they don’t need,” Rosenberg said. Maybe the same tools could be used to make a microbicide popular. “Is there a way to think about it that isn’t H.I.V.? Public health can’t tell us that.” Every weapon in the fight against AIDS needs to pass these same two tests — it has to work and people have to use it. But particularly in poor countries, where most of these services are by necessity free, AIDS treatments and prevention strategies are usually offered as if marketing were unnecessary. That is especially true for antiretroviral therapy. After all, the logic goes, it’s a lifeline. Surely no one would throw it back.

And when they have access to it, most people don’t. Antiretrovirals are now saving lives all over South Africa. The public-health system has gone from 0 to 175,000 people on antiretrovirals in two years. Add in programs run by businesses and nongovernmental groups like Médicins Sans Frontières, and more than a third of South Africans who need antiretrovirals are now taking them, and the figure continues to rise. Patients who have agreed to start antiretrovirals are very good about taking their medicine, and when they do, few are dying.

But the surprise is that South Africa has indeed had to sell AIDS treatment — and it’s often a hard sell. “People think the health department wants them to be dead,” said Sylvia Maguma, a traditional healer, or sangoma, I met in the township of Bekkersdal. I heard many people say this. It may be a hangover from the apartheid years, when it was literally true, and more recently, the government has spent years criticizing as poisonous the same drugs it is giving out now. Some antiretrovirals do have awful side effects, especially at first. But denial and stigma make things worse. People with AIDS tend not to admit, even to themselves, that they are sick; they seek help only when death is imminent. They start the antiretrovirals too late, and then the rumor spreads: the medicines killed her.

But there is something else at work here: the weight of traditional culture. In the township of Tembisa I met Vusi Ziqubu, a 33-year-old who was dying of AIDS. He could get free antiretroviral treatment at his local clinic. But he preferred the herbal remedies of Grace Mhaula, his sangoma. “He was gone,” said Mhaula of the moment she first saw Ziqubu. “He was frail, smelling of death.” Mhaula gave him a solution of herbs to drink four times a day. When I visited him in his house, he was thin, but looked strong and was up and around.

It is commonly said in South Africa that 80 percent of blacks go to a traditional healer first when they are sick. To South Africa’s poor, the bones of the sangoma are the reassuring and trustworthy medicine their families have used forever. It is the clinic’s fabulous tales of invisible bugs that sound to them like hoodoo. The science of the rich is the magic of the poor, and vice versa. And the sangoma, unlike the nurses at the clinic, can spend time with the patient.

But traditional healers can be a dangerous first stop for people with H.I.V., and not just because they often mean a delay in starting antiretrovirals. Sometimes the consequences are more dire. “I discourage older men from going to young girls to cure AIDS,” said Mhaula, but horrifyingly, some healers do not, spreading the message that sex with a virgin is curative. Many sangomas, Mhaula said, induce diarrhea or vomiting to clean out the illness, which can be debilitating for someone sick with AIDS.

So South African officials have begun to train traditional healers about H.I.V. Training often lasts only a few days, and it varies greatly in quality, but it is nonetheless useful and has reached thousands of sangomas. Mhaula took the training and trained others herself. I met her in April, and I later found out that she died suddenly three weeks after I visited her, of an infection unrelated to AIDS. She was an enormous woman of 53 who greeted me in a muumuu and fuzzy pink slippers. The daughter of two traditional healers, she had been one herself since the late 1970’s. But she also worked in the labs of a multinational drug company for 27 years, and the company paid her college tuition. Arthritis forced her into early retirement, but she was bored at home. At Tembisa’s health clinic, she received training in H.I.V. counseling and caring for the terminally ill. Her own daughter died of AIDS six years ago, and Mhaula was raising her daughter’s child.

Off her patio was a small room — her indumba, or consulting room. The walls were lined with hundreds of glass jars and plastic tubs containing mixtures of herbs. Animal skins and straw mats covered the concrete floor. Hanging from the ceiling were candles, the clothes of her ancestors and beaded necklaces. There was a plate of bones. When her clients (she does not call them patients) visited her, she read the bones. When she was alone, she put on the clothes of her ancestors and called their spirits. There were seven different ancestors that she talked to.

Mhaula walked me through what she did when she recognized symptoms of H.I.V. “I say: ‘Think about it. We live in the modern age. Don’t you think we should go to the clinic? You will be in a safe environment.’ They say, ‘Will you go with me?’ I say, ‘Yes.’ Sometimes they want me to go get their test results. They say, ‘Don’t tell me the results, just give me imbiza”’ — the herbal mixture she makes that she says boosts the immune system. “I say, ‘How are you going to change your behavior?’ They say, ‘I’m not yet ready.’ I tell them: ‘It’s good to have one partner. You must use condoms.”’

Working with traditional healers is hugely important for fighting AIDS in South Africa. But it has a dangerous side. The problem lies in the stack of white tubs that were behind the door of the indumba — Mhaula’s imbiza. She was careful not to call it a cure. It might indeed strengthen the immune system — it has never been tested in clinical trials, so we don’t know. But it cannot be taken with antiretroviral drugs. That meant Vusi Ziqubu had to choose.

“Traditional healing is being manipulated to put forth a political agenda,” says Jonathan Berger, head of policy and research at the AIDS Law Project in Johannesburg. “It’s a way to push the anti-Western-medicine line by appealing to culture and tradition.” When I was in South Africa, a “cure” called the mopane worm was on the front pages of the tabloid papers. Health officials’ embrace of a long line of charlatans has encouraged a thriving industry in such cures. Hundreds of sangomas sell them. They are very tempting to people fearful of the impersonal clinic. “With us, you don’t have to take it the rest of your life,” Mhaula told me. “And there are no side effects. Patients come in, and they are so afraid, and then I give them the imbiza and I give them some porridge to eat. And it’s all right.”

Imbiza seemed to be helping Ziqubu — for now. But there was another patient taking Mhaula’s imbiza, a close family friend, a mother of three children. She was doing well, Mhaula told me — please come talk to her. Two days later, I came back to meet the woman. But she had already died. AIDS is a disease of taboos. For its sufferers, psychological comfort, like that provided by traditional healers, is paramount — sometimes more important than even staying alive. But over the next few years, word will spread about the Lazarus effect of antiretroviral drugs. Although logistical and personnel problems will no doubt remain, few people will be able to argue that the drugs are poison, and few will shun them for herbal remedies.

There is also reason for optimism that other weapons in the fight against AIDS will win more public acceptance. Improvements in service will encourage more women to protect their babies. In the Alexandra clinic, the resourceful nurse Pauline Molotsi has hit on a strategy that sometimes helps. If an H.I.V.-positive woman does not want to take the nevirapine, Molotsi thrusts a piece of paper and a pen toward the woman, essentially making her take responsibility for her decision. “Would you really like your baby to have the virus?” she asks. “If you don’t take the pill, you will have to sign.” At Chris Hani Baragwanath Hospital in Soweto, which has an unusually well-financed and -run antenatal clinic, 98 percent of pregnant women agree to be tested for H.I.V. There will always be psychological barriers, but good service can overcome them.

That may not be true with South Africa’s most basic challenge: to bring down AIDS’s astronomical prevalence in the general population. Help could come from the brand-new technology of microbicides, but it could also come from the very old one of circumcision, which may offer some protection from H.I.V. infection. (Clinical studies due to conclude next year may tell how much protection.) That’s the future, though. For the moment, AIDS prevention is entirely a conundrum of psychology and culture — one we know very little about how to solve. The small list of countries that have had some success with prevention includes such dysfunctional places as Haiti, Zimbabwe and Cambodia. Experts can point to some good programs in these countries, but plenty of nations with rising AIDS rates have the same programs. The country that had an early drop in AIDS prevalence, Uganda, probably achieved this because its particular culture of openness brought the disease into the public eye, and the country treated it like World War III.

In South Africa, where AIDS has already exploded through the general population, prevention is an even more overwhelming challenge. One disturbing fact: Surveys show that South Africa’s teenagers know about AIDS and how it is transmitted. They know the behaviors that put people at risk. But they don’t apply this information to themselves. There is no correlation between information and behavior change. Two-thirds of young people who test H.I.V.-positive — in anonymous surveys, so they don’t know it — do not consider themselves at risk for AIDS. Especially for teenagers, the psychology of sexual behavior resides in some deep and mysterious place, apparently shielded from the reach of traditional public-health messages as if by a lead curtain. The question is whether anything can get through.

South Africa is trying to answer that question with a controversial H.I.V./AIDS-prevention program called loveLife, which generally serves youths from 12 to 17. It is as far from the traditional campaigns as it could be. I went to the community hall in Emzinoni, a black township in Mpumalanga province in the country’s east, to hear a dialogue staged by loveLife. Outside, geese ran in the dirt yard next to purple loveLife banners. Inside the auditorium, vibrant music blared and balloons filled the stage. A pop star named Elle sang a song about believing in yourself. A woman in jeans and a pink hat and a man in khaki shorts strode back and forth in front of the crowd, each with a microphone in hand, bantering in Zulu and English with about 500 Emzinoni parents and children, leading them in games and discussions about AIDS. Sithembile Sefako, the woman, and Mnqobi Nyembe, the man, are trainers from loveLife’s national office. They are local versions of a motivational speaker like Tony Robbins, traveling the country holding these events — but the problems they are discussing are not the ones Tony Robbins usually has to confront.

Sefako asked for volunteers for a little play: a university student named Beauty comes back from college to tell her parents she is pregnant and has H.I.V. Afterward, the actors compared their skit to reality. “Our parents scream at you and call you names,” said the young man who played the father. “They say: ‘I’ve seen you walking in the street! I knew you were going to fall pregnant!’ They beat you.”

“We use culture as an excuse,” Sefako said. “They say, ‘I can’t talk to my children, it’s not right.’ We hide behind culture.” Next Sefako opened a discussion about responsibility for teen sex. A girl in a flowered cap said: “Most guys force us. Then they say if you are going to open a case with the police, we’ll beat you. We’ll come with a group and we’ll kill you.”

“Guys compete,” one boy said. “You say, ‘I’m going to sleep with six girls before Sunday.”’

“Is it true most women are falling pregnant to prove they can bear children?” Sefako asked.

One girl said: “We mustn’t lie. Most fall pregnant because they want the money” — the South African government’s grant of $30 per month per child. “They think, I’ll buy myself sneakers and jeans.”

A man differed: “The reason women fall pregnant is that we see females in the street in a miniskirt.”

“Are you saying young girls are getting raped because of what they wear?” Sefako asked.

“Yes, because of the way they are dressing, they end up in trouble.”

A girl responded: “Then what about someone who rapes a 3-year-old child?”

“A child from 10 upward knows how to sleep with a guy, and she knows the way she is dressing,” the man responded. The crowd hooted.

These unnerving comments contrasted bizarrely with the festive tone of the event. What was most remarkable to participants, however, was not what people were saying but that they were saying anything at all. Nelson Mandela often said that when he told traditional chiefs that he planned to speak out about AIDS and sex, they told him he would lose their support. What passes for communication between parents and children about sex is often just a cryptic warning to girls to “stay away from boys” and to boys, nothing. Yet children whose parents do talk to them about sex abstain longer and are more likely to use condoms. In general, openness is the anti-AIDS — if the sick came out of hiding, it would be easier for their friends and neighbors to accept that they, too, are at risk. That’s one reason loveLife’s principal slogan is “Talk About It.”

By 1997 AIDS was a crisis of biblical proportion in South Africa, with 13 percent of adults infected. The red-ribbon billboards that passed for an AIDS-prevention campaign were failing disastrously, especially with young people. For girls — who tend to have sex with older men — the riskiest age was between 12 and 17. The Kaiser Family Foundation, a health organization based in California, pledged that if South Africans could decide what was needed to prevent the spread of AIDS in young people, the foundation would pay the bill for the first five years.

Kaiser hired Judi Nwokedi to help plan the program. Nwokedi is a charismatic whirlwind who is head of government relations for Motorola in South Africa. A psychologist by training, she worked with sexually abused children and on AIDS projects while in exile in Thailand and Australia. Nwokedi met with AIDS groups, government officials and international experts to forge agreement on the basics. She also commissioned surveys of South Africa’s teenagers. The surveys found that teenagers tuned out the traditional prevention messages and were most receptive to an AIDS campaign that was about more than just AIDS. The teenagers also said their parents didn’t talk to them about sex or relationships — and they desperately wanted that kind of communication and wanted their parents to set limits. Significantly, the study found that poorer girls realized their first sexual encounter would probably be coerced and violent.

The next question was how to reach the children and young people at risk. “The normal way of AIDS or any peer education with young people was to pack them into the church hall or the school hall,” Nwokedi says. “They would have to sit there while someone would stand up there and talk at them. And whatever they told you, you went out and did the exact opposite because you were so angry that they kept you there for five hours. I wanted H.I.V. education to have another dimension — it had to be interactive, engaging, question-and-answer, vibrant debate.”

Under apartheid, young people identified with collective action. Now they were tired of politics, tired of “we.” An expansion of electrical service in the late 1990’s had allowed the number of households with televisions to soar. Young people were tuning into the global popular culture they saw on TV, with a very high level of awareness of brands.

The working title for the campaign had been the National Adolescent Sexual Health Initiative. Nwokedi, consulting with teenagers, public-health leaders and marketing experts, nixed it. “You’re dead before you can even go out to young people,” she said. “They’d call it Nashi as an acronym — that was soooo public health!”

The AIDS-prevention program had to be branded. The closest model was a recent relaunch of Sprite. “Sprite took the brand off the shelf into the communities,” Nwokedi says. “They did basketball, sponsored concerts, sent cool kids onto campus, talked up Sprite in Internet chat rooms. It was very driven by celebrities in the community creating the hype. I was looking at what is tactile about your brand, what experiences you create.”

Instead of a fear-driven, preachy, stodgy Nashi, the AIDS prevention campaign became loveLife — positive, hip and fun, “an aspirational lifestyle brand for young South Africans,” as the group’s literature says. Today loveLife is one of the 15 best-known brands in South Africa. The country is dotted with 1,750 loveLife billboards. Radio call-in shows reach three million young listeners a week. LoveLife has TV spots and TV reality shows, including one that sent attractive young people into the wilderness to compete in AIDS-related games, like using the other sex’s tools of seduction. A Web site ( and magazines feature not only graphic information about H.I.V. but also fashion, gossip and relationship advice.

There are very few South Africans who lack strong opinions about loveLife. South Africa has other AIDS-themed TV series and media campaigns and many other behavior-change programs. But at $25 million a year, loveLife is the giant, and it attracts most of the controversy. Initially, I was a skeptic. LoveLife struck me as empty cheerleading — telling young people who live in cardboard houses and eat a few handfuls of cornmeal mush each day to look on the bright side, when there is no bright side.

LoveLife started out promising too much, pledging to halve the rate of new H.I.V. infections among young people in five years. More recently, it has suffered management problems. South Africans cluck about the fact that the Global Fund to Fight AIDS, Tuberculosis and Malaria cut off a loveLife grant last year — one of only three grants stopped worldwide. The money was being used to, among other things, build rooms where teenagers could go, known as “chill rooms,” in health clinics. Brad Herbert, who was chief of operations at the Global Fund at the time, told me that the grant was canceled because construction was too slow and expensive, but that there were no charges of impropriety. (The grant arrived six months late, and loveLife officials argue that the delay caused cash-flow and exchange-rate problems.)

But many people also question loveLife’s basics. Virtually every South African adult I met thinks that the messages on loveLife’s billboards — the media most visible to adults — are incomprehensible. Many — like “Get Attitude!”— indeed appear to have nothing to do with AIDS. But loveLife’s leaders argue that the billboards, like all of loveLife’s media, are not there to educate young people but to draw them into the face-to-face programs. They promote loveLife as an exclusive club that you, as a teenager, can join. The celebrity gossip and fashion advice in loveLife magazines is also not a message but a delivery system. “The logic of the brand is to create something larger than life, a sense of belonging,” says Dr. David Harrison, a tall, lanky, white physician who became head of loveLife in 2000. “That creates participation in clinics, schools — people go because they like to be a part of loveLife.”

As Sprite did, loveLife uses kids to recruit their peers. It has programs now in a third of the country’s high schools, a seventh of the nation’s health clinics, 130 community organizations and 16 loveLife centers. All these programs are run by what loveLife calls, with a typical typographical flourish, groundBREAKERs. They are young people between 18 and 25, trained and hired for one year at minimum wage to talk about sex, AIDS and relationships, help run school sports competitions (South Africa’s only public-school sports in most of the country), radio stations and computer workshops. Perhaps most important, they are taught how to motivate young people by sharing their own personal histories. That is crucial, as loveLife’s challenge is not to impart information but to cut through fatalism and denial to get young people to apply the information they already know.

I met Harrison in loveLife’s headquarters in the Johannesburg suburb of Sandton, a pleasant campus of modern buildings with interiors painted in loveLife’s trademark purple and white. He said that loveLife’s research found that what particularly put young people at risk was coerced sex. Other factors were low self-esteem, absence of belief that the future offered any reason to make wiser choices today, peer pressure, lack of parental communication and the popular belief that a girl is not a woman until she has a baby. Poverty, low education and marginalization also led to higher rates of AIDS.

LoveLife cannot do much about those last three. Instead it tries to promote family and society communication and help young people acquire the skills and motivation to resist pressure to have sex, especially unprotected sex. “When I ask young people what made them change, they never say, ‘You gave us information,’ ” Harrison says. “They say: ‘I feel an identity with a new way of life. I can be like my friend whose life has changed.”’

There have been some good recent analyses about how to tinker effectively with teenagers’ heads. A study last year led by Dolores Albarracín of the University of Florida examined evaluations of hundreds of H.I.V.-prevention programs. The group found that threats and fear don’t work. This finding argues against “AIDS kills” messages and also against more sophisticated programs that encourage teenagers to confront how AIDS has ravaged their families. For young people, not surprisingly, one of the most effective arguments for making healthier choices is that their peers are doing the same. Programs that produced the most behavior change combined H.I.V. information, attitude change and training in skills like saying no to sex without a condom.

The most serious criticism is that loveLife is aimed in the wrong direction. “LoveLife is too focused on individual choice,” says Warren Parker, the executive director of Cadre, an AIDS group. “We need community organizing around the issues of sexual violence, gender imbalance.” The question of whether to try to change an individual’s behavior or a society’s culture is a big debate in AIDS work. Certainly in South Africa, both seem necessary.

“To stop the epidemic in the long term we need to tackle sexual violence,” says Piot of Unaids. “But the problem is we still have a crisis. If we’re going to wait till men and women have equality and no one has to sell their body — well, we can’t wait for that.”

LoveLife’s message is the same public-health gospel a Nashi would have used: abstinence, fidelity, condoms. But that message is received very differently if it comes during a five-hour lecture in the church hall than it is if it comes from Sibulele Sibaca, a petite, enthusiastic, energetic 23-year-old from Langa, a township outside of Cape Town. Today she is a corporate social investment manager in Richard Branson’s Virgin Group in South Africa. That, she says, is because of loveLife. When she was 12, her mother died of AIDS. When she was 16, her father followed. “Before I joined loveLife, I had a serious history of self-destruction,” she said by phone from Cape Town. “I saw my life ending up in the township, pregnant, not knowing who the father of my child is.”

She got through high school. A friend told her about loveLife, and she began going to its programs. “I had been engaging in highly risky behavior, but loveLife helped me realize there were things I wanted to achieve in my life, and I couldn’t afford to have sex without a condom,” she said. “The reality is that every young person has a dream, but a lot of us look at our situation and think, Who are we kidding? But the minute someone triggers in your brain that it is possible, you start looking at life in a different way.

“Seeing billboards of a dying person didn’t tell me about me,” Sibaca says. “But when someone says, ‘You have such amazing potential that H.I.V. shouldn’t be a part of it’ — then it wasn’t about H.I.V. It was about me. No one is wagging a finger at me. These were people the same age as me. It wasn’t a celebrity telling me their story living in a million-dollar house. It was another young person from the same township as me.”

She applied to be a groundBREAKER. LoveLife trained her to do motivational speaking and gave her facts and ways to talk about teen pregnancy, peer pressure, H.I.V. and other issues. She went to work in a high school, visiting the same class every day for 21 weeks. I asked her whether she felt it helped anyone. She told me about one girl in her class two years ago, also from Langa. “She was 15 and came to me and said, ‘My boyfriend is pressuring me to have sex without a condom.’ Her fear was that her boyfriend would break up with her if she said no, and she had to hold on to him because he gave her money and clothes that her family could not provide her with. I gave her all the different choices and consequences and said, ‘Are you willing to live with those consequences at age 16?’

“She came to me the next week and said, ‘I’m single.’ She had broken up with her boyfriend. I hugged her and started crying — she saw her fears and was willing to go through with it anyway.” Sibaca saw the young woman again a few months ago. “She was not H.I.V.-positive and not pregnant, and she was going to study law next year.”

This is cheerleading — but it’s not empty cheerleading. LoveLife cannot promise any South African teenager that life will be good. But living on one meal a day is even harder if you have AIDS. It seemed valuable to help young people realize that there were reasons to stay healthy and that the choice is theirs.

In Orange Farm, a forlorn and violent township southwest of Johannesburg, I visited a loveLife center, a complex of buildings that draws kids in with a basketball court, a radio-production facility and a computer workshop — but first, kids have to do AIDS training. LoveLife seemed to be Orange Farm’s only after-school alternative to drinking, gangs and sex. In a mining district in rural Limpopo, I visited several health clinics. Nurses at clinics are famous for simply yelling at kids who come in with gonorrhea or a request for contraception, or threatening to tell their mothers. Now these clinics have loveLife chill rooms manned by groundBREAKERs. They have persuaded nurses not to drive teenagers away and will escort teenagers into their appointments.

I watched groundBREAKERs give talks on H.I.V. in schools and after school. The quality of their programs varied with their skills and the local environment. Some were pretty good. At Serokolo high school in the Limpopo mining town, I watched 23-year-old Tebatso Klass Leswifi run a class through a quiz on H.I.V., with discussion that ranged from whether girls become pregnant because of the country’s child grant to why you would want to know your H.I.V. status. He also works at the local health clinic and helps run a league with 10 basketball teams. The high school’s aerobics team — also coached in part by Leswifi — put on a show to the music of the pop hit “Gloria.” I met a 17-year-old named Princess who said she calls Leswifi every day for some words of wisdom to motivate her to stay in school. In another Limpopo health clinic, however, I watched about 20 bored-looking kids sit through a lecture by groundBREAKERs on H.I.V. and loveLife’s programs. It was done in the rote-memorization style still typical in South Africa’s rural schools, with practically no discussion. Still, I heard too many young people tell me loveLife had changed their lives to dismiss it. The organization seemed a little like a cult — and that’s good. Many young people I met told me that loveLife had saved them in big or little ways, and they said they were on a mission to pass that along to others.

There are strong indications that loveLife does indeed change young people’s behavior. In 2003, the Reproductive Health Research Unit of the University of the Witwatersrand in Johannesburg did a survey of 15- to 24-year-olds. It found that people who had participated in loveLife’s programs were only 60 percent as likely to be infected with H.I.V. as those who had not, and the risk diminished further for those who had participated in more than one program. There was also a strong association between loveLife participation and increased condom use — although there was no statistically significant effect on abstention or partner reduction. Since the study was not a randomized, controlled one, it could not prove that loveLife programs caused the behavior change.

LoveLife has not, of course, produced the promised 50 percent drop in new H.I.V. infections. But loveLife’s face-to-face programs have been working nationwide since only 2002. “It is too early to dismiss this,” says Purnima Mane, the director of policy, evidence and partnerships at Unaids in Geneva. “It can take five or six years to see results.” And last month, the South African government reported that new surveys of pregnant women showed that rates of infection in teenagers are holding steady, while the rates of other age groups are rising. This suggests something is working with teenagers. LoveLife currently reaches around 40 percent of South Africa’s youth with face-to-face programs. That’s a lot, but more would be better — given the scope of the catastrophe, $25 million a year is not that much. There are other programs that take a different but equally sophisticated approach, and it would help if they were broadened as well. Where the likelihood your partner is infected is as high as in South Africa, ordinary success might not be enough.

The thinking behind loveLife — get into their heads — needs to become part of every AIDS program, in South Africa and around the world. Governments are still setting goals of providing “access” to medicines or condoms, but access and accessed are very different things. It will be a complicated and expensive change, because what works in one culture may not work in another. It will also require people to take into account what works. It sounds strange to say it, but this is often not a factor. Across Africa, groups are turning to abstinence-only programs not because they work — they don’t — but because that’s what Washington wants to finance. Rigorous evaluation to show which AIDS programs are effective is also necessary, something that is only an occasional afterthought today. Without attention to the social, psychological and cultural factors surrounding the disease, we are throwing away money and lives. This is the new frontier. Twenty-five years into the epidemic, we now know how to keep people from dying of AIDS. The challenge for the future is to keep them from dying of stigma, denial and silence.

Tina Rosenberg writes editorials for The New York Times. She has written for the magazine about AIDS, malaria and tuberculosis, among other subjects.

BBC News

August 22, 2005

The interview: Edwin Cameron

Supreme Court judge Edwin Cameron, 52, is the only person in public office in South Africa to acknowledge having HIV/Aids. Here, he talks about going public, the political denial surrounding HIV/Aids and the drugs keeping him alive.

Q: You are still the only prominent public figure in South Africa to have announced having HIV/Aids. Why is that?

A: It’s an epidemic that affects so many tens of millions of Africans but it’s an epidemic of silence. We are still waiting for a cabinet minister in Africa, for a public figure or even for a soccer star or a singer – we have people with tremendous public following in Africa to come forward and say: "I am now living with HIV and this is how I’m dealing with it".

Q: Why are people reluctant? What has been your experience?

A: I was a gay man who came to terms with being a homosexual about 20 years ago. And not long after I came out. I was infected with HIV. I experienced the diagnosis not only as a terrible shock because it was without my consent or knowledge but I also had this tremendous feeling of shame, a sense of contamination, of defilement. I thought the shame about my HIV diagnosis was because I’d got it as a gay man, and I was wrong. At that very time in Africa, we began to realise – it had been evident for the past few years – this was going to be a mass heterosexual epidemic.

Q: You had to separate the stigma of being a gay man in a country like South Africa from the HIV/Aids stigma?

A: A poor black woman… went onto the radio and she spoke about having HIV – three weeks later, she was killed You’re quite right. And I’ve discovered from dealing with many people over the last 20 years, that heterosexual black women, so different from myself in so many dramatic material ways of life, have experienced the exact same sense of being defiled and contaminated, of unworthiness, when they discover they’ve got HIV.

Q: How do people consider you?

A: I was known as someone who had an expertise in Aids as a human rights lawyer… so I had a stature within the epidemic as a policymaker. But at the same time I was living this dread secret. I decided to speak out because I’d fallen ill with Aids, it had caught up with me after 12 years. I thought I couldn’t live this double-life much longer. And then there was a trigger at the end of 1998 when a poor black woman living in a township in Durban went onto the radio and she spoke about having HIV. And three weeks later, she was killed. I thought if [this woman], without any protection, living in a township, not behind a palisade like I do in my middle-class suburb in Johannesburg, not with the income of a judge, not with the constitutional protection… I thought that I should speak out…

Q: The trappings of your life have protected you from the kind of rage that someone felt against her for declaring her Aids status.

A: I was greeted with this absolute flood of loving approbation from all over Africa. I got letters from all over the world. It was on the main television news and the newspapers. I got back to an office filled with flowers. It was a wonderful response. For someone in my position, there is a great deal of approval for speaking out but people in ordinary jobs, people in ordinary communities are still speaking about a great deal of stigma and discrimination.

Q: You originally considered yourself to be heterosexual. When did you realise you were homosexual?

A: For most people in Africa, homosexuality is a very difficult thing to confront. In South Africa, when I was an adolescent, I knew that I was gay but I suppressed it. I never ever thought I would speak about being gay or ever act it out. But I had a failed marriage and the unhappiness it inflicted on my partner and myself made me realise that I had to come to terms with this… even though gays and lesbians were being persecuted.

Q: Describe the process of beginning to take the drugs that saved your life.

A: It was very dramatic. By the end of October 1997, I suddenly became very sick with a lung infection… I had lost an enormous amount of weight, my immune system had stopped functioning and the virus was raging throughout my body. I knew that I had to contemplate this treatment… which was fantastically expensive… way out of the reach of most Africans with Aids or HIV. Within 10 days of starting anti-retroviral medication, I knew that a physiological miracle was happening within me. I knew that the virus had come to a standstill. I felt my health, my energy, my appetite and my joy for life returning.

Q: You have made the issue of political denial about the HIV/Aids epidemic your campaign.

A: People were dying when the treatment was available because of cost and that was morally unacceptable. But there was a second front and that was the South African government that said: "We’re not sure that this is a virus at all". President [Thabo] Mbeki started a commission to look into the question whether Aids was caused by a virus at all. And it led to a terrible period of stalling in our national life, which ended, blessedly, in August 2003 when the government announced it was going to give anti-retrovirals to people with Aids through the public health system. What we want is a heartfelt, unified, emphatic, unconditional commitment from all our governmental leaders. We don’t yet have that.

Q: Describe Nelson Mandela’s contribution to the fight against Aids since he left politics.

A: It has been absolutely pivotal. In December 2001, former President Mandela made it absolutely plain he was going to speak in public about the fact that treatment was essential. His accession to the debate has been dramatic. It’s made all the difference

New York Times

August 19, 2006

U.N. Official Assails South Africa on Its Response to AIDS

by Lawrence K. Altman
Toronto — A top United Nations official delivered a blistering attack on South Africa on Friday at the closing of the 16th international AIDS meeting here, saying that its government “is still obtuse, dilatory and negligent about rolling out treatment.”

In a keynote address, the official, Stephen Lewis, the ambassador to Africa for AIDS for the United Nations, said South Africa “is the only country in Africa whose government continues to propound theories more worthy of a lunatic fringe than of a concerned and compassionate state.” South Africa has the largest number of H.I.V.-infected people in the world. Its president, Thabo Mbeki, has continually expressed skepticism that H.I.V. causes AIDS, and the country has questioned antiretroviral treatment and delayed providing it to pregnant women and AIDS patients.

In his remarks, Mr. Lewis said, “The government has a lot to atone for,” and “I’m of the opinion that they can never achieve redemption.”
He said he felt his job demanded that he advocate for the tens of millions of H.I.V.-infected people, including those in South Africa, even though many say a United Nations official has no right to criticize a member state. Mr. Lewis has long been critical of countries for failing to help women who become infected. “Gender inequality is driving the pandemic, and we will never subdue the gruesome force of AIDS until the rights of women become paramount in the struggle,” he said.

The inequality of women makes them highly vulnerable to becoming infected through “marital rape to rape as a war crime,” Mr. Lewis said, adding that, while sexual violence occurs everywhere, in Africa, “The violence and the virus go together.” Preventing the transmission of the AIDS virus from infected pregnant women to newborns, which can be done with simple regimens, is “very near the top in the hierarchy of preventive measures,” he said. But the vast majority of pregnant women in the world, he said, go without such prevention, and even the women who receive it are not given full treatment to help keep them alive, so their children often become orphans.

Yet the world is doing very little for orphans whose number is expected to grow to 18 million by 2010. “I appeal to everyone to recognize that we are walking on the knife’s edge of an unsolvable human catastrophe,” Mr. Lewis said. Mr. Lewis’s term as envoy ends in December at which time, he said, he hopes his successor will be an African woman. Other speakers urged training more nurses and health workers in poor countries to deliver the antiretroviral drugs and preventive measures needed to stop the AIDS epidemic. The many international programs that are scaling up efforts to deliver antiretroviral drugs to poor people cannot succeed without large numbers of health workers to monitor the care of AIDS patients.

“We need hundreds of thousands of new nurses” in poor countries, said Dr. James McIntyre, an AIDS expert in South Africa. But low salaries and poor working conditions are driving health workers into other jobs and away from those countries, leaving “too few people with the right skills,” said Anders Nordstrom, the acting director general of the World Health Organization. “It’s not enough to provide money and drugs and to train people, as important as they are” in the scale-up programs, he said. “You need to pay people.”

Disease is also taking its toll. Countries with 15 percent H.I.V. prevalence rates can be expected to lose 30 percent of their health workers over a 10-year period, Dr. Nordstrom said. At a news conference, he said antiretroviral drugs needed to be offered to more health workers.
Nurses and others involved in the care of AIDS patients often work in unsafe or dangerous conditions, said Dr. Pedro Cahn, the new president of the International AIDS Society, the main organizer of the AIDS conferences. This conference was the largest ever, drawing 26,057 participants.

Dr. McIntyre, the South African, cited the frustration of nurses who deal with high death rates among their patients because of the lack of antiretroviral drugs. He quoted an unidentified nurse who said, “If I wanted to be an undertaker, I wouldn’t have trained as a nurse.” As the conference speakers delivered their remarks, hundreds of Africans, Asians and people from around the world began dismantling the global village created here to promote discussion of H.I.V. One exhibit, called “Dress Up Against AIDS,” included 10 dresses by Adriana Bertini, a Brazilian artist, made from thousands of condoms. Nearby were women from the Masaka district of Uganda who displayed their crafts, including mats, straw bowls and drums. In another booth, Kenyan workers showed off sandals and beaded necklaces. In others, attendants handed out pamphlets on programs for H.I.V. and AIDS.

The next AIDS conference will be held in Mexico City in August 2008.

ABC News Online

August 25, 2006

S Africa Cabinet approves gay marriage bill

by Zoe Daniel
South Africa’s Cabinet has approved a Bill allowing gay marriage, which is expected to make it the first African country to allow the practice.
The Bill must now be approved by Parliament to be passed into law. It will allow same-sex couples to marry in compliance with a constitutional court ruling last year that gay couples cannot be prevented from doing so.
The Bill remains controversial and it is still open to public comment. If Parliament does not give it the final tick, the court ruling dictates that the law will automatically change later this year. South Africa will then become the first country in Africa to allow same-sex marriage. It will be only the fifth country in the world to allow it.

Reuters News

August 24, 2006

South Africa on road to allowing same-sex marriage–High court rules denying gay couples the right is unconstitutional

Johannesburg, South Africa – South Africa’s Cabinet has given the green light for a bill allowing gay marriage, which would make it the first country in Africa to accord homosexual couples the same rights as their straight counterparts. Government spokesman Themba Maseko said the Cabinet had approved the bill — which must still be adopted by Parliament — after the country’s highest court ruled it was unconstitutional to deny gay people the right to marry.

"Basically (the bill) will legalize same-sex marriage in compliance with the constitutional court ruling," said Maseko, who could not say when Parliament would discuss the bill. The bill — which has drawn opposition from religious groups who want a referendum on the issue — is still subject to public comment.

The Cabinet decision puts South Africa on course to join a handful of mostly European countries that allow same-sex marriage, making it the first to do so in Africa, where homosexuality remains taboo and opponents decry gay unions as "un-African." South Africa’s high court said in December same-sex unions must be allowed under the country’s constitution — widely considered one of the most liberal in the world. It said parliament had one year to change the current definition of marriage, which says the union is between a husband and wife, and that if it failed to act, the law would be automatically changed to include same-sex unions.

The Netherlands, Belgium, Spain and Canada sanction gay marriages. Many African countries outlaw homosexuality and turn a blind eye to the persecution of gays and lesbians. Some church groups in South Africa, which is predominantly Christian, have opposed same-sex unions on the grounds it flouts public opinion.

Ghanaian Chronicle (Accra)

20 September 2006

Gay Laws in Africa And Around the World

Ghana’s Criminal Code prohibits homosexuality in Chapter Six, Article 105, which states "whoever is guilty of unnatural carnal knowledge (a) of any person without his consent, is guilty of first degree felony; (b) of any person with his consent, or of any animal, is guilty of a misdemeanor." Most other African countries have laws prohibiting homosexuality, some for men only. Penalties for being found in contravention of the laws range from fines in several countries, to life in prison, to the death penalty in Mauritania and Sudan. There are no laws against homosexuality a dozen African countries including Burkina Faso, Cote d’Ivoire, Mali, Niger and Rwanda.

South Africa has the most liberal laws in Africa; its constitution explicitly protects against discrimination based on sexual orientation, and a recent Supreme Court ruling made same-sex marriage legal. Internationally, the countries of Belgium, Netherlands, Spain and Canada allow two people of the same sex to legally marry. Dozens of other countries – especially in Europe – give some type of legal recognition to same-sex relationships, through registration or marriage-like "civil unions." At the same time, more than two dozen countries – particularly in the Middle East and Asia – have laws that prohibit homosexual relationships. Several countries, including Saudia Arabia, Pakistan and Iran, impose life in prison or the death penalty for offenders

Mail & Guardian, South Africa

October 15, 2006

Being gay and Zulu

by Niren Tolsi
‘He called me over to his house on my way back from the shop and asked me: ‘Do you think you can run faster than me?’ I didn’t answer and started walking away, then he grabbed me and pulled me inside and forced himself on me.” Khensani Mbokazi, a 23-year-old pre-op transsexual currently with a male body, was raped at 15 by her father’s friend. She was too scared to tell her parents of the rape, for fear of their response. A year later, Khensani’s father kicked her out of the family home: “My father heard about it because the whole Umlazi community were talking about it. They were saying that I seduced [my rapist] because I was so desperate for a man. My father said that when I was born he thought his son was a real Zulu man who would one day bring a wife into his home. I didn’t want to hurt my family, so I left,” says Mbokazi.

“Messaging” on gay issues, especially from Zulu leaders, is hurting young Zulus who are both in and out of the closet, believes Nonhlanhla Mkhize, manager of the Durban Lesbian and Gay Community and Health Centre. The centre, which counsels people who are uncertain about their sexual orientation, is the only one of its kind in KwaZulu-Natal. It sees more than 200 people a week, mainly Zulu men between the ages of 12 and 35, but some as old as 65. Mkhize says utterances like those of ANC deputy president Jacob Zuma at Heritage Day celebrations in KwaDukuza were affecting the psychology of gay Zulu-speakers. Zumu said that when he was growing up “an ungqingili [gay man] would not have stood in front of me. I would knock him out.”

Such statements fuel intolerance with sometimes violent repercussions, including hate crimes such as rape.

Between 2001 and 2003, says Mkhize, the centre identified 65 cases of rape, 23 of which were hate crimes. In such cases “the rapist or rapists were explicit about their motives, saying the gay person was raped to cure them, to make them more of a man or a woman”. Mbokazi believes her rape, at 15, was a hate crime. “He didn’t want to make love to me, he wanted to prove that he could change me and that I shouldn’t act like this because this sort of thing will keep happening to me,” she said.

Zuma’s homophobic sentiments follow a string of statements by Zulu leaders based on the alleged nature of Zulu culture and the idea that homosexuality is an alien practice imported by European colonialists. In his address at the annual reed dance in Nongoma last year, King Goodwill Zwelithini referred to homosexuality as a “problem” and said: “The Zulu nation will not be this big, with millions of people, if there was the problem of gay people that we have today. This new behaviour is quickly becoming a threat in our nation because it encourages people not to have proper families that have children.

“We have a huge responsibility as a nation to teach our children to distance themselves from homosexuality.”

In 2001, eThekwini (Durban) mayor, Obed Mlaba, said in the context of tourism competition between eThekwini and Cape Town: “We should stop comparing ourselves to cities like Cape Town. In fact, Cape Town can stay with its moffies and its gays.” Behind the Mask’s Wendy Landau, who researches human rights violations against gays and lesbians in sub-Saharan Africa, says it is “common practice” for government officials, politicians and church people in Southern Africa to voice homophobic sentiments, adding: “The homophobia spewed by the sub-Saharan media is also unbelievable.”

Vasu Reddy, chief research specialist at the Human Sciences Research Council’s gender and development unit, remarked that Zuma’s utterances were “tantamount to hate speech” and that the notion of gay identity being un-African, spouted by many political leaders, was aimed at denying the fact of homosexuality among Africans. “Essentialising the African experience to the exclusion of other practices is really about underlying homophobia and disrespect for people’s identity,” Reddy said.

Mkhize also emphasised the assault on people’s struggle to find themselves: “It becomes difficult for young people — those who are out and those still trying to identify who they are — to be proud of who they are. “When the king, considered the custodian of Zulu culture, says that being gay is not part of Zulu culture, people start to ask: ‘Maybe I am wrong to believe I’m gay? Am I confused? Maybe being gay is an import?’ These questions can have a devastating effect on someone who believes they have settled their identity problems.”

According to a survey by NGO Out and the Unisa Centre for Applied Psychology, Levels of Empowerment among Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender People in KwaZulu-Natal, the less comfortable people are with their sexual identity, the more likely they are to suffer depression, low self-esteem, drug and alcohol abuse and suicidal thinking. It found that black gays and lesbians in KwaZulu-Natal reported the highest frequency of “always” or “often” thinking about suicide.

The survey found that religious and cultural pressures, as well as verbal, physical and sexual abuse, domestic violence and attacks on property all had an impact on how comfortable uncloseted gays were with their sexual orientation and identity.

Cindi Buthelezi (not her real name), a 29-year-old dancer who grew up in Mkwalume on the south coast, says that coming out to her Christian family was extremely difficult because of religious and cultural prejudice. “Because of our culture and our religion, a lot of people are not aware, or don’t have knowledge, of what it means to be a lesbian. I am scared of my family and their reaction.” In her family of 11 siblings, only one sister and her son knew of her sexual leanings.

Said 21-year old student Mdu Ntuli, who grew up in the Durban township of Umlazi: “Zulu society doesn’t want to recognise gays. We are on the margins of society and sometimes to survive we have to act straight.” Ntuli says he is openly gay, but affects being straight whenever he returns to the township. Being gay is more acceptable in Durban but he still encounters homophobia in the city. He remembers walking past a taxi rank with his lover, “wearing these really skimpy, sexy shirts”, and being called “istabane — a horrible, horrible word for gays”.

Mkhize recounts how a lesbian couple tried to register an adopted child with the department of home affairs: “The response from officials was: ‘Are you crazy? How can two women be the parents of this child?’

“That is how we have been socialised and the new legal frameworks will not be enough, unless we tackle perceptions in society,” she said.

Zuma may have alienated gay voters, but Reddy is certain he has appealed to “the paranoias and anxieties” of many South Africans, especially considering the vitriol emerging from public hearings on the Civil Unions Bill. And, while the Constitution entrenches freedom of sexual orientation, its impact on attitudes seems to have been minimal. “Rights are wonderful; we have wonderful jurisprudence and legal protection, but those amount to nothing if they don’t come with justice,” says Reddy.

The Out study found that 49% of respondents believed public perceptions of lesbian and gay people had not changed since the Constitution took effect, with 35% unsure. Only 31% of respondents felt comfortable with being open about their sexual orientation because the Constitution protected their rights, and only 25% felt their constitutional rights were being put into practice.

“Constitutional education hasn’t really been carried out in this country,” says Mkhize. “We’ve done work in rural KwaZulu-Natal, and you can go to places like Ulundi and talk about human rights, but there the Constitution is a government document — the king’s rule is considered supreme,” she said. She insisted that the problem was not Zulu culture in the narrow way it had been interpreted — and manipulated for political purposes.

Khensani Mbokazi

International Herald Tribune

November 6, 2006

Despite legal protections gay life in the township is one of loneliness, fear and violence

Soweto, South Africa – At an informal, unlicensed bar at a house in a remote corner of men and women sip lukewarm beer, mingle, flirt and sometimes dance to driving and montonous kwaito rhythms.

They share a secret.
The bar, called a shebeen in the townships, is one of the places where young, black gays don’t have to hide who they are, where they can talk openly, and find companionship and a safe haven in an often hostile township. South Africa in 1996 was the first country to adopt a constitution that protects people from discrimination based on sexual orientation. Under its terms, the Constitutional Court ordered the government to legalize same sex marriage by year’s end. Partly as a result, the country has the most open gay community on a continent where homosexuality is usually driven underground and portrayed as un-African — an unwanted legacy of colonialism and white culture. But legal protection does not guarantee acceptance or tolerance. The reality is often a life of loneliness, fear, rape, violence and sometimes even murder.

"I’ve been raped six times, five times just because I am gay. I was raped by men I know, who wanted to show me what it means to be a woman. They thought it would change me, that it would keep me from being gay," said a young black lesbian from Soweto who asked not to be identified by name for fear of reprisals.

Human Rights Watch said early this year that lesbians in South Africa face abuse and violence simply for not fitting social expectations of how women should act. At a township outside Cape Town last February, 19-year-old lesbian Zoliswa Nkonyana died after she was chased by a mob, beaten with golf clubs and bricks, and stabbed because of her sexual orientation. No one was arrested, said Donna Smith, the head of the Forum for the Empowerment of Women and a member of the Coalition of African Lesbians. "We work with black lesbians in the townships. One of the first things we did was organize an anti-hate crime campaign. At the first meeting we asked how many had been the victims of a hate crime or had first-hand knowledge of one and everyone in the room put her hand up," said Smith.

During a gay pride march last year, she said the forum’s float was attacked by people throwing bottles because it portrayed homosexuality as a natural part of African culture. "What is un-African is homophobia," said Smith. "Some people believe homosexuality is an idea brought here by the white man. But it has always been here. What the white man brought was homophobia clothed in religious doctrines that we did not have before."

Anthropologists have found evidence that homosexuality was widely tolerated in many parts of pre-colonial Africa. For example, E.E. Evans-Pritchard reported that until the practice died out in the early 20th century, male Azande warriors in the northern Congo routinely married male youths who functioned as temporary wives. In the new, democratic South Africa gay people want to believe their sexual orientation doesn’t matter, said Smith. But to many it still does. So gay people find safety in numbers at places where they know they will be safe and accepted. At the shebeen, the owner, Gundi Dube, a short, jovial man with a large gold chain inside the open neck of his sports shirt, greets new arrivals at the gate, passing judgment on whether it is safe to let them inside the club’s cramped courtyard.

Dubi, known to all simply as Scotch, greets one new arrival, a woman, with a warm embrace and announces: "It’s OK, she is one of us. She is a policewoman … but it is OK because she is one of us." "This is the new South Africa. We were all in the anti-apartheid struggle together and now nobody cares if you are gay or straight," said one middle-age man. But then, almost in the same breath, he asked to be identified only as Cassie because he didn’t want people outside the club to know he was gay.

As he talks he becomes annoyed by Sipho, a tall, thin young man in white jeans and a faded olive drab Eisenhower jacket who dances alone nearby to the loud Kwaito music. Sipho tries to convince anyone who will listen that he is really the son of Libyan leader Moammar Gadhafi. "I really don’t like that kind of guy," said Cassie, after Sipho made crude advances. The problem with gay men in the townships is they are so promiscuous. It is killing us. AIDS is killing us," said Cassie, who says he is still mourning the recent death of his partner of 18 years.

South Africa, after India, has the second highest number of people infected with HIV. In Southern Africa, most transmission of HIV is by heterosexual contact. But a study in Durban earlier this year estimated a third of South Africa’s gays are HIV positive. "I’m HIV positive because of one of the rapes," said the young black lesbian who said she had been raped six times. "I’m just angry. I’m angry all the time. And it is lonely. You are so lonely when you are gay and afraid in the townships." In an effort to deal with her rape, fears and loneliness, she said she had turned to writing and poetry.

"The smell of hate never goes away. The thought of betrayal stays and remains within my thoughts, sight, senses and deep within my soul and spirit. It has created continuous and uncontrollable anger. It has filled me with hate. It has made me think and feel I am mad and sometimes it hits me like I am worth nothing," she wrote in one recent essay. At the Nunbither restaurant on a busy street in the heart of Soweto, Temba Mabaso drinks cocktails at a table next to the sidewalk and says she just doesn’t care what other people think. "I struggled for 14 or 15 years with being gay," she said. "I am not going to struggle anymore. I don’t expect people to love me. But I do expect them to understand me and respect me and to understand that I am not going to go away."

Smith said in most of the rest of Africa gay life has been driven underground by discriminatory legislation and hostility often fanned by homophobic comments by politicians. Deputy President Jacob Zuma said in a September speech that same-sex marriages were "a disgrace to the nation and to God." He also said: "When I was growing up a gay would not have stood in front of me. I would knock him out."

He later apologized, but the pain he caused lingered in the gay community.
Homosexuality is illegal in Zimbabwe, Kenya, Uganda, Nigeria, Tanzania, Ghana and most other sub-Saharan countries. In Zimbabwe, President Robert Mugabe fueled homophobic sentiment by declaring that gays were "worse than pigs or dogs." Daniel Arap Moi, when he was president of Kenya, called homosexuality a "scourge." Ugandan President Yoweri Musevni ordered police to round up and arrest gays. South Africa is different, Smith said. The gay community is more visible and vibrant. Because of legal protections attitudes are changing slowly, step by step. "But the country still has a long way to go," she said.

Seattle Post-Iintelligencer

November 9, 2006

South African panel OKs gay marriage

by Clare Nullis AP Writer
Cape Town, South Africa – A parliamentary committee approved proposals for same-sex marriages in South Africa on Thursday, clearing the way for the passage of legislation that would be unique on a deeply conservative continent. The compromise, reached after heated public debate, upset religious groups, traditionalists and even some members of the governing African National Congress while gay rights activists said it didn’t go far enough. "It’s been a very difficult time. It was a major challenge," said Patrick Chauke, chairman of the Home Affairs Portfolio Committee, which spent weeks touring the country to gauge public opinion and received nearly 6,000 written comments.

The civil unions bill will go to a full session of parliament Tuesday. Despite the unease in the ANC ranks, it is expected to pass as lawmakers have been ordered to follow the party line and told there is little room for maneuver. Denmark in 1989 became the first country to legislate for same-sex partnerships, and several other European Union members have followed suit. In the United States, only Massachusetts allows gay marriage. Vermont and Connecticut permit civil unions, and more than a dozen states grant lesser legal rights to gay couples. In Africa, homosexuality is still largely taboo. It is illegal in Zimbabwe, Kenya, Uganda, Nigeria, Tanzania, Ghana and most other sub-Saharan countries.

South Africa recognized gay rights in the constitution adopted after apartheid ended in 1994 – the first in the world to prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. But the government long opposed attempts to extend the definition of marriage in court to include same-sex couples in the mostly Christian country. Married couples currently have numerous rights still denied gay couples, including the ability to make decisions on each other’s behalf in medical emergencies, and inheritance rights if a partner dies without a will. South Africa’s Constitutional Court ruled last year that the country’s marriage legislation was illegal because it discriminated against same-sex couples. It gave the government until Dec. 1 to adopt new legislation.

The bill provides for the "voluntary union of two persons, which is solemnized and registered by either a marriage or civil union." It does not specify whether they are heterosexual or gay partnerships. But it also says marriage officers need not perform a ceremony between same-sex couples if doing so would conflict with his or her "conscience, religion and belief." That could leave gay couples shopping for someone to perform their ceremony.
Gay rights groups welcomed the inclusion of the term "marriage" in the legislation but said they were disappointed that homosexual couples were being treated differently from heterosexual couples because of the opt-out clause.

"Everyone should be governed by one law," said Vista Kaupa of the Triangle Project, which provides support for gays and lesbians. "Marriage should be for everyone. There should be one encompassing umbrella for everyone." Jonathan Berger of the AIDS Law Project said the wording implied that "something inherently problematic about same-sex marriage." He predicted that the bill would be open to challenge on grounds that it does not comply with the Constitutional Court ruling for full equality before the law. Marie Fourie and Cecelia Bonthuys, a lesbian couple from Pretoria, sued the government for not recognizing their October 2002 wedding. The government lost the case, as well as the appeals.

Chauke, who put aside his own religious convictions to steer the bill through the Home Affairs committee, said the final compromise was a "wonderful" product. "We’ve arrived at the point where we’ve met the constitutional requirement that everybody is equal before the law," he told journalists. The main opposition Democratic Alliance said it had "serious problems" with the bill and complained that it was rushed through the committee on the final day without a vote and without time for adequate debate. "One of the problems is to call same-sex unions a marriage," Terius Delport said. Steve Swart of the African Christian Democratic Party was visibly upset. "It would be the first time that an African country has same-sex marriage. This we cannot accept," he said.

"Wendy Landau" <>

14 November 2006

South African leabian/gay organisations welcome the civil union act with reservations

Press Statement: Joint working group response to passing of civil union act
The Joint Working Group, a national network of 17 lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) organisations, welcomes the historic step taken by Parliament to allow lesbian and gay people the choice to get married. Unlike earlier versions of the Civil Union Bill, the statute that has been passed no longer creates a separate category for lesbian and gay people exclusively but rather broadens the institution of marriage to include same-sex couples. In keeping with the transformation of our society from one based on unfair discrimination and exclusion to one based on equality and dignity for all, our elected representatives have signaled their strong commitment to ensuring that the values of our Constitution are made real for all people irrespective of their sexual orientation.
Speaking on behalf of the Joint Working Group, Fikile Vilakazi stated: “In large part, the Act signals a rejection of previous attempts to render lesbian and gay people as second-class citizens. It demonstrates powerfully the commitment of our law-makers to ensuring that all human beings are treated with dignity”.
Whilst welcoming the spirit of the Act, the Joint Working Group still believes that there is no need for a separate piece of legislation existing alongside the current Marriage Act. A parallel administrative system for the two statutes only increases the burden on state machinery and is likely to lead to confusion. In addition, it continues to reinforce the notion that there is a need to separate same-sex couples from other marriage forms, in some way. As David Bilchitz, Chairperson Jewish Outlook, notes: “"There is no rational reason for allowing same-sex couples only to be married under the Civil Union Bill and not the Marriage Act. We urge government to rationalize our marriage laws and create one legal regime for all in South Africa”."
The Joint Working Group asserts that at least one section in the Civil Union Act is unconstitutional and vulnerable to legal challenge. Section 6 allows civil marriage officers to object to marrying lesbian and gay people on the grounds of conscience. Melanie Judge, Programme Manager of OUT LGBT Well-being, states: “We have no objection to religious denominations only marrying people according to the dictates of their faith. We do, however, object strongly to allowing civil marriage officers to decide who they will marry and who they won’t.  This is particularly problematic when the basis for exercising conscience is limited to sexual orientation”
Although, we welcome the fact that domestic partnerships will be regulated separately to marriage, the Joint Working Group urges government to act speedily to pass legislation that protects individuals who, for reason of choice or circumstance, are not able to access the legal benefits of marriage.
The process of deliberation surrounding the Civil Union Bill has shown that many South Africans harbour deep prejudice and intolerance against lesbian and gay people. Many people have shown their failure to understand the separation of religion and state and even to understand the fundamental rights and values of our Constitution. The Joint Working Group calls on the government to take a leadership role and to develop public education programmes. Such programmes should be aimed at deepening the commitment of all South Africans to honouring and embracing diversity whether it be in relation to race, gender or sexual orientation.  The Joint Working Group pledges its commitment to working with government and all other stakeholders towards this end. For, we believe that equality does not exist on a sliding scale: it either exists for all or for none.
For more information please contact:
Fikile Vilakazi
Tel: 012 344 5108 or 083 2949720
Melanie Judge, Programme Manager, OUT LGBT Well-being
Tel: 012 344-5108 or 083 2712543.
This statement was released on behalf of the following organizations
Activate WITS
Behind the Mask
Durban Lesbian and Gay Community and Health Centre
Forum for the Empowerment of Women
Gay and Lesbian Archives
Gender DynamiX
Glorious Light Metropolitan Community Church
Good Hope Metropolitan Community Church
Hope and Unity Metropolitan Community Church
Jewish OUTlook
LEGBO Northern Cape
Pietermaritzberg Gay and Lesbian Network
OUT LGBT Well-being
Out In Africa South African Gay & Lesbian Film Festival
Rainbow UCT
Triangle Project
The Lesbian and Gay Equality Project
Pride Cape Town

New York Times

November 14, 2006

South African Parliament Approves Gay Marriages

by Sharon LaFraniere
Johannesburg – South Africa’s Parliament overwhelmingly voted today to legalize same-sex marriages, making the nation the first in Africa and the fifth in the world to remove legal barriers to gay and lesbian unions, according to activists. The legislature voted after the nation’s highest court ruled that South Africa’s marriages statutes violated the constitution’s guarantee of equal rights. The court gave the government a year to amend the legal definition of marriage. That deadline expires in two weeks. Melanie Judge, program manager for OUT, a gay rights advocacy group, noted that the Netherlands, Belgium, Spain and Canada were the only other countries to allow same-sex marriages nationwide. In most African nations, she said, homosexuality is still treated as a crime. Some penalties are stiffer than those for rape or murder..

Ms. Judge credited South Africa’s liberal constitution with forcing change. “This has been a litmus test of our constitutional values,” she said in a telephone interview. “What does equality really mean? What does it look like? Equality does not exist on a sliding scale.” Religious groups and traditional leaders strenuously opposed the measure, arguing that if necessary the constitution should be amended to outlaw same-sex unions. But the ruling African National Congress virtually demanded that lawmakers support the bill.

Despite deep divisions within the party, the measure passed 230 to 41. It must now be approved by the Council of Provinces, a quasi-federal chamber, and be signed the president to become law. Vytjie Mentor, the party’s caucus chairman, told the South African newspaper The Sunday Independent earlier this month that he expected legislators belonging to the African National Congress to vote for the measure, regardless of their personal views. There is “no such thing as a free vote or a vote of conscience,” he said. “How do you give someone permission to discriminate in the name of the A.N.C.? How do you allow for someone to vote against the constitution and the policies of the A.N.C., which is antidiscrimination?”

The new law allows both heterosexual and same-sex couples to register their unions either as marriages or civil partnerships. But in a concession to critics, it also allows civil officers to refuse to marry same-sex couples on the basis on conscience. Ms. Judge, the gay rights advocate, predicted that provision will be challenged in court. “We can’t be in the situation where civil officers can decide who they want to marry and who they don’t want to marry,” she said. “They aren’t able to refuse to marry a black person and a white person. This is unconstitutional.”


November 14, 2006

Gay couple plan legal wedding

Johannesburg – Lindiwe Radebe and Bathini Dambuza have been engaged for a year. Now, they want to take their relationship to the next step. The couple from Soweto hope to be among the first gay people to take advantage of the Civil Unions Bill that was passed by South Africa’s national assembly on Tuesday, recognising gay unions. "I can’t wait," said Radebe, 25, an activist with the Forum for the Empowerment of Women, which supports black lesbians.

Dambuza, 22, a local tour guide, wears a pretty diamond-and-gold engagement ring that Radebe gave her about a year after they met. They decided to get engaged to show their commitment to each other and not because they were expecting the bill to come into effect. But, getting married will change their lives, they said.

Homosexuality largely taboo

"For some people marriage means nothing, it is just a piece of paper. But, we want that symbolism of having a legally binding document of our love," said Radebe. The bill is a first for a continent where homosexuality is largely taboo and the two young women are proud of South Africa’s broad-minded constitution that has ensured their relationship will be made legal.

"It is something big for us to get this recognition. I think we are very fortunate," said Radebe. South Africa in 1996 was the first country to adopt a constitution that protected people from discrimination based on sexual orientation and the country has an active and open gay community. But, legal protection does not guarantee acceptance or tolerance, especially for gay black men and women. The reality is often loneliness, fear, rape, violence and, sometimes, even murder. So, Radebe and Dambuza know not to expect same-sex marriages to be easily accepted by more-conservative sectors of society.

"Now, the struggle will begin. Now, you will hear all sorts of remarks," said Radebe. "We have always had to fight. But people will have to get used to it, said Dambuza. While the couple haven’t set a date yet and are unlikely to opt for an old-fashioned white wedding, they are full of talk about their plans.

"We want it to be a big party," said Dambuza, adding that they expect to see a number of their gay friends also get married.

Want the legal protection

The couple also are keen to have children and hope that by getting married it will be easier to adopt or become parents. They also want the legal protection it will give each other in case of emergency. "Imagine if something happens to one of us and your family come and take all that we have worked for. "It is quite important for us to have that safety and security. There are many things that are dependent on being married," said Radebe.,,2-7-1442_2030937,00.html

15 November 2006

Gay bill: ‘End of the world’

Johannesburg – There has been a mixed reaction of horror and delight at the news that South Africa has passed a bill to legalise gay marriages, making it the first country to do so on a continent where homosexuality is still largely taboo. Gay-rights groups applauded the decision as a step forward for Africa. But some in deeply religious Africa lambasted the decision as "un-African" and immoral.

"This is a foreign action imposed on Africa," said Islamist leader Sheikh Sharif Ahmed in Mogadishu, the capital of Somalia, where powerful Islamists control the south of the country. This is not something that is indigenous to Africa, it is something that has come from abroad."

‘World coming to an end’

The civil union bill was overwhelmingly approved on Tuesday, which gives same-sex couples the same rights as heterosexual ones. It still needs approval by the national council of provinces, but is expected to come into effect by the end of November. Taxi driver Nicklaus Mwanaseri in the Tanzanian capital of Dar es Salaam said the decision to allow gays to wed was so immoral that it signified the world was coming to an end. "I see a big flood coming soon because of going against God’s teaching," he said.

But, gay-rights groups dismissed charges that gay marriage was un-African and hoped the decision would pave the way for fairer treatment for homosexuals on the poorest continent. Laurent Laroche of the Mauritian gay-rights group, Collectif Arc-en-Ciel, said: "I feel very, very proud for South Africans. It is a great model for us, for Africa." In Uganda, lesbian Faridah Kenyini said South Africa had set a good example for the rest of the continent.

"In Uganda, I have to hide myself. I can’t bring my girlfriend here or risk being persecuted," she said. Kenyini tried to flee to Britain but her asylum application was rejected and she was deported to face the wrath of her Muslim father, who had threatened to kill her. Vista Kalipa, a black homosexual in Cape Town, denied homosexuality was un-African, but said he was braced for opposition from other parts of the continent.
Kenyan gay man sceptical

"Homosexuality is as African as can be. How can people claim it is un-African when there are African people who are born gay, raised by African parents on African soil?" But, for one homosexual man in Kenya, the vote would change little for gays, lesbians and bisexuals who lived in fear due to prejudice. "What this will do is open up a flood of gay bashing. No one will say: ‘Let’s think about this, let’s talk about it.’ No one will say, these people exist, let’s give them a voice.

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November 19, 2006

South African Gays Often Face Harsh Reality

Soweto, South Africa – At an unlicensed bar in an inconspicuous house, men and women sip lukewarm beer, mingle, flirt and dance to driving music called kwaito. They share a secret. The bar, or shebeen, in the black township of Soweto in Johannesburg, is a place where young, black gays don’t have to hide who they are, where they can talk openly, and find safety and companionship in an often hostile neighborhood.

Last week South Africa’s Parliament legalized same-sex marriages to comply with its 1996 constitution that was the world’s first to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation. But reality often collides with these liberal intentions. Democratic post-apartheid South Africa has the most open gay community on a continent where homosexuality is usually driven underground and portrayed as un-African — an unwanted legacy of colonialism and white culture.

But while white and black gays who escape the poverty of the townships enjoy a high level of tolerance, those left in places such as Soweto often lead lives of loneliness, fear, rape, violence and even murder. ”I’ve been raped six times, five times just because I am gay. I was raped by men I know, who wanted to show me what it means to be a woman. They thought it would change me, that it would keep me from being gay,” said a young black lesbian from Soweto who asked not to be identified for fear of reprisals.

While gay men are more likely to be ridiculed than physically abused, 19-year-old Zoliswa Nkonyana paid with her life, chased by a mob, beaten with golf clubs and bricks and stabbed in a township outside Cape Town in February. No one was arrested, said Donna Smith, the head of the Forum for the Empowerment of Women and a member of the Coalition of African Lesbians. At a meeting of women to launch an anti-hate-crime campaign in the townships, ”we asked how many had been the victims of a hate crime, or had first-hand knowledge of one, and everyone in the room put her hand up,” said Smith.

During a gay pride march last year, she said, bottles were thrown at the forum’s float because it portrayed homosexuality as a natural part of African culture. Anthropologists have found evidence that homosexuality was widely tolerated in many parts of pre-colonial Africa. E.E. Evans-Pritchard, an eminent pre-World War II researcher, reported that until the practice died out in the early 20th century, male Azande warriors in the northern Congo routinely married male youths who functioned as temporary wives. ”What is un-African is homophobia,” said Smith. ”Some people believe homosexuality is an idea brought here by the white man. But it has always been here. What the white man brought was homophobia clothed in religious doctrines that we did not have before.”

At the gate to the Soweto shebeen, owner Gundi ”Scotch” Dube, a short, jovial man wearing a large gold chain on his neck, greets new arrivals at the gate and looks out for undesirables. He welcomes a newcomer with a warm embrace and announces: ”She is a policewoman … but it is OK because she is one of us.”

”This is the new South Africa,” says a middle-aged man. ”We were all in the anti-apartheid struggle together and now nobody cares if you are gay or straight.” But in almost in the same breath, he asks to be identified only as Cassie lest outsiders learn he is gay. ”The problem with gay men in the townships is they are so promiscuous. It is killing us. AIDS is killing us,” said Cassie, who is mourning the recent death of his partner of 18 years. South Africa, after India, has the second highest number of HIV-infected people. In this region, most transmission of AIDS is by heterosexual contact, but a study in the eastern port city of Durban estimates a third of South Africa’s gays have the virus. ”I’m HIV-positive because of one of the rapes,” said the woman who said she had been raped six times. ”I’m just angry. I’m angry all the time. And it is lonely. You are so lonely when you are gay and afraid in the townships.”

She said she has turned to writing and poetry. ”The smell of hate never goes away. The thought of betrayal stays and remains within my thoughts, sight, senses and deep within my soul and spirit. It has created continuous and uncontrollable anger. It has filled me with hate. It has made me think and feel I am mad and sometimes it hits me like I am worth nothing,” she wrote in an essay. At the Nunbither restaurant on a busy Soweto sidewalk, Temba Mabaso drinks cocktails and says she doesn’t care what others think.

”I struggled for 14 or 15 years with being gay,” she said. ”I am not going to struggle anymore. I don’t expect people to love me. But I do expect them to understand me and respect me and to understand that I am not going to go away.” Smith said in most of the rest of Africa gays have been driven underground by discriminatory laws and politicians’ invective, highlighted by Zimbabwe President Robert Mugabe calling gays ”worse than pigs or dogs.” South Africa’s new marriage law passed by 230 votes to 41, but had powerful opponents. In a September speech for which he later apologized, Deputy President Jacob Zuma said same-sex marriages were ”a disgrace to the nation and to God.” He also said: ”When I was growing up a gay would not have stood in front of me. I would knock him out.’

29 November 2006

Senegalese Debate S. Africa’s Same-Sex Marriage Bill

by Phuong Tran
Dakar – This Friday, South Africa will become the first African country, and the sixth in the world, to legalize same sex marriages if President Mbeki signs the civil union bill into law.  Other countries on the continent seem far removed from these legal developments. VOA’s Phuong Tran reports from Dakar on the debate regarding same sex marriages. Support for the bill is largely muted in the primarily Muslim country of Senegal, where homosexuality is considered a moral crime. But privately, some voice their support.

Participants take part in Johannesburg’s 17th Gay Pride parade 30 Sept 2006 In Senegal, almost everyone identifies with a faith that forbids same sex relationships. It is no surprise, then, that public Senegalese response to South Africa’s same sex marriage bill is almost uniformly negative. But a number of private conversations reveal a more nuanced reaction. In public, groups of men wash their feet, hands and faces as they prepare to enter a mosque for their evening prayers. In public, religious leaders will explain how their faiths all forbid same sex relationships. In public, the law treats homosexuality as a moral crime punishable by up to five years of prison and a $3,000  fine. But in private, Serfi, who identifies himself as a homosexual, supports the bill. He uses a pseudonym for privacy.

Serfi says that seeing his African counterparts have the courage to fight for the right to marry, and for homosexuality to be decriminalized, gives him hope. He says that South Africa offers a lesson that one day, Senegal will be able to follow its example. In Senegal, it was only six years ago when a local university conducted the first large scale study of male homosexuals. Gary Engelberg, co-director of ACI Consultants, an American NGO based in Dakar, participated in the study’s working group.

"Senegal woke up to the fact that there is, in fact, a gay community operating in Senegal on a mostly hidden and clandestine basis because of fear of reprisal in a basically homophobic, very religious society," he noted. Imam Amadou Kanté believes the Koran makes it impossible for Senegal to allow same sex marriages Imam Amadou Kanté, a Muslim leader of several mosques in Dakar, acknowledges this gay community, but strongly opposes public recognition of same sex unions because of his faith.

He says it would be impossible to have a homosexual couple marry in public. He says that everyone has their private life. He compares homosexuality to public drunkenness. It is okay, he says, to be drunk in private, but not in public. But he is clear to note that in private or public, Islam does not sanction homosexuality. While Kanté is clear about how Islam regards homosexuality now, he says that religion and its lessons are human interpretations, which can change over time. Perhaps in 10 to 15 years, Senegal may have same sex marriages, he says.
For Alioune Tine, the Secretary General of a Senegalese human rights organization, RADDHO, the issue of public recognition of same-sex marriages is a human rights issue.

"Gays exist in Africa, Senegal, everywhere in the world," he noted.  "I think they are free to see the kind of contract they can have to live together. It is not the role of the state to decide what way people can live their life. People are free to have their own life."
On the streets of Dakar, one taxi cab driver disagrees. The driver asks himself why a man would not act like a man, and why he would act like a woman, wanting to have relations with another man?

"When men start having relations with other men, this can cause disease,"  he said. He concludes by saying that homosexuality is bad, and that if he saw a homosexual hailing a cab, he would refuse to pick up that person. While some analyze South Africa’s pending same sex marriage bill as a moral concept, for Serfi, a homosexual Senegalese man, it offers a concrete hope. He says he feels the weight of belonging to society, but not being given the same rights. He says he dreams of one day being able to marry, to be able to go out with his partner, walking arm in arm, and, he says, to cry out that homosexuals are liberated on this continent.


November 30, 2006

Cheers, boos as South Africa legalises gay marriage

by Andrew Quinn
Johannesburg – South Africa on Thursday legalised gay marriage, the first country to do so on a continent where homosexuality is widely taboo. "Acting President Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka has signed into law the Civil Union Act 2006," the presidency said in a statement, adding that the new law was effective immediately. The low-key signing of the new law reflected political sensitivities over gay marriage, which conservative and religious groups have declared immoral and out of step with African tradition.

Mlambo-Ngcuka signed the bill in the absence of President Thabo Mbeki, who is on an official trip to Nigeria and thereby avoided putting his name to a law which has raised hackles even within his ruling African National Congress. Gay rights groups were elated with the step, which puts South Africa among only a handful of nations worldwide to recognise same-sex unions. "We see this as a victorious movement for the gay and lesbian community in South Africa, especially in a continent that is still scornful towards homosexuals," said Vista Kalipa, media coordinator of the Triangle Project, a group dedicated to fighting gay discrimination.

"We hope that other countries in Africa will actually begin to see this as a positive thing, reaffirming that homosexuality is indeed African."

South Africa’s drive to become the only African country to legalise gay marriage is a by-product of its post-apartheid constitution, which is among the most liberal in the world. Gay groups sued to demand equal treatment with heterosexual couples under the constitution’s non-discrimination clause, and the country’s top court last year ordered the government to change marriage statutes by December 1 to include same-sex unions.

Religious groups had mounted a last-ditch effort to block passage of the new marriage law for parliament, demanding the government hold a national referendum on the issue. "To force the morality of the radical homosexual minority on the people of South Africa through law is, in effect, to lead the masses astray," a group calling itself the Christian Action Network said in a statement on Thursday. Gay marriage has also upset social conservatives, who say that homosexuality is un-African and taboo — attitudes which hold across much of the rest of the continent.

But the ANC used its massive majority in parliament to push the measure through, saying the constitution’s demand that all groups stand equal before the law had to be respected. Churches have already geared up to begin celebrating their first gay weddings while one enterprising jeweller offered 20,000 rand of "custom made bling" for the gay couple that can prove they will be the first to legally marry. "Even if we have to work through the night, the rings will be designed and sized for the couple in time for the nuptials," said Uwe Koetter Jewellers said in a statement.

The Department of Home Affairs said it was "all systems go" for same-sex marriage licenses, but some prospective couples appeared to be waiting to see how the bureaucracy would react. "Many couples have phoned us wanting to get married in a church," said Sharon Cox of the gay-friendly Good Hope Community Church in Cape Town. "But we are not sure if the department will be ready, and obviously couples want to make sure their wedding is perfect and not disrupted by hold-ups because relevant forms are not available," she said


01 December 06

First South African gay couple ties the knot

Johannesburg – South Africa’s first gay couple to get married exchanged vows on Friday, a day after the country became the first in Africa to legalise same-sex unions, state radio and television reported. SABC News said Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls were married in a magistrates’ office in the southeastern town of George after planning their wedding for eight months. I just have one message I would like to give to everybody, that we are just two men who love each other and who have loved each other for a long time," Gibbs told state television.
They have been partners for nine years and own a guest lodge and wild animal rehabilitation centre in Riversdale, a small farming town about 300 km (200 miles) east of Cape Town.

The law legalising gay marriage was signed on Thursday but conservative and religious groups have declared it immoral and out of step with African tradition. South Africa’s move to join a handful of countries which have legalised gay marriage is a by-product of its post-apartheid constitution, which is among the most liberal in the world. Gay rights groups sued to demand equal treatment with heterosexual couples under the constitution’s non-discrimination clause, and the country’s top court last year ordered the government to change marriage statutes by December 1 to include same-sex unions.

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December 4, 2006

Out in Africa

Two game rangers in South Africa have become the first gay couple in the continent to get married, writes Andrew Meldrum
The grooms wore khakis and leather boots. Two game rangers, Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls, became the first same-sex couple to legally wed in South Africa on December 1, a day after President Thabo Mbeki’s government authorised gay marriages. South Africa is the first country in Africa and the fifth country in the world to legalise same-sex marriages. Gibbs and Halls tied the knot at 11 am on Friday, another same-sex couple married at 1 pm, and several other "pink weddings" took place over the following days in Johannesburg and Cape Town. The Rev Paul Mokgethi, of the Hope and Unity Metropolitan Community Church in Johannesburg, presided over a gay wedding on December 2. He said he was pleased at all the news coverage of the same-sex marriages as this would help to educate people, making them more tolerant of homosexuality.


7 December 2006

Marriage for South Africans but Black Gays Still Target of Hate Crimes

Johannesburg – Black homosexual men and women are increasingly encountering a variety of hate crimes in South Africa, despite legislation protecting the rights of sexual minorities. In 1996 South Africa became the first country on the continent to adopt a constitution protecting people from discrimination based on sexual orientation, and legally recognised same-sex marriage on 1 December 2006. However, Prof Vasu Reddy, chief research specialist at the Gender and Development Unit of the Human Sciences Research Council (HSRC), said although the constitution worked on paper, it did little to guarantee acceptance or tolerance, especially for gays and lesbians living in townships.

"This intolerance is translated into verbal abuse, psychological abuse or other subtler forms of victimisation, which fall short of being punishable under current law, but there are increasing reports of physical expressions of homophobia being on the rise," Reddy told IRIN. In February this year, a gang of young men stoned, beat and stabbed to death Zoliswa Nkonyana for being a lesbian, in front of her home in the sprawling township of Khayelitsha, outside Cape Town.

A young woman nearly bled to death in September 2005, after being attacked on the Forum for Empowerment of Women float during the annual Johannesburg Gay Pride march, and in the previous year a 22-year-old lesbian was raped in Meadowlands, a township south of Johannesburg. Although these cases received much media coverage, not much seems to have been done to counter such violence. As part of the annual ’16 Days of Activism for no Violence against Women and Children’ campaign, the HSRC and the Durban Lesbian and Gay Community and Health Centre, in the east-coast port of Durban, jointly hosted a novel day-long roundtable discussion on gender-based violence, hate speech and homophobia against black lesbians.

"Many of our sisters are still brutally assaulted … ‘corrective rape’ has become a common practice for young men apposing homosexuality, and who are set on ‘curing’ gay women of sexual deviance and an ‘un-African’ way of life," said Reddy. Years of international research has shown that between 5 percent and 10 percent of people in every community are lesbian and gay, yet it remains popular belief that homosexuality is uniquely European or American, according to OUT, a local non-governmental organisation supporting the rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) individuals.

"Sexual orientation has nothing to do with one’s skin colour or geographical location. The fact is that being in or outside Africa does not determine whether one is LGBT," a spokesman for the group pointed out. Michael Van Schalkwyk, a young information technology professional, in the past made full use of the nation’s constitution by openly celebrating his homosexuality until he was faced with the harsh reality of being gay and living in a black township.

"It was at a party just outside Pretoria [in Gauteng Province] that I witnessed two local gay guys being threatened with rape for being ‘stabane’ [derogatory Zulu word for gay]. My perception of what our constitution meant … [in terms of protecting] gay people was changed forever," he said. Van Schalkwyk said unless you lived in the affluent suburbs of South Africa, you did not benefit from the new "gay laws".
"Gays are slowly becoming more prominent in society, but we still have a long way to go," Reddy said. "Events such as this roundtable discussion are important, and must be sustained, in order to mainstream the issues around violence against sexual minorities and social transformation."

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December 17, 2006

African Female Scholars Share Virtual Lifeline

by Gretchen L. Wilson, WeNews correspondent
Female faculty are rare at African universities, but the Internet helps university women exchange ideas and moral support. It provides what some participants call a "virtual feminist university." First in a series on higher education in Africa.

Cape Town, South Africa – When Dr. Sylvia Tamale spoke out a few years ago in favor of gay rights in Uganda–where homosexuality is illegal and regularly prosecuted–the fallout was fierce. Local news media quoted members of the public who said she should be "lynched" and "crucified" for suggesting such a thing. She says politicians, fellow academics, even friends turned against her.

"I felt extremely isolated and lonely," says Tamale, 44, who in 2003 suggested Uganda’s proposed Equal Opportunities Commission prohibit discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation. But Tamale, a law professor at Kampala’s Makerere University, wasn’t entirely stranded. For support she turned on her computer and sent e-mails to an online network called Strengthening Gender and Women’s Studies for Africa’s Transformation, or GWS-Africa.

About 200 academics are subscribed to the list, and members use it daily to announce job postings, report on emerging issues on the ground, profile women’s achievements or, in Tamale’s case, save morale. Tamale reported what she was going through and in response, she received messages of solidarity from feminist academics and activists across Africa who had met through the African Gender Institute (AGI) at South Africa’s University of Cape Town. "Most of the support and encouragement that I received came from sisters at the AGI and the broader GWS-Africa list serve," she says. "The AGI introduced me to a network of feminist scholars around the continent that have served as an invaluable support base in my intellectual and activist work."

Universities Male-Dominated
Women are more visible on African university campuses than a generation ago, but Tamale says universities remain male-dominated and male-structured. That can be particularly true in sub-Saharan Africa, where 20 million girls are denied any education due to discrimination, poverty and conflict according to a 2005 Save the Children report. While there are no continent-wide figures on women’s representation at universities, post-apartheid South Africa is widely agreed to be a Mecca. But even there, senior women faculty are scarce. At Johannesburg’s venerable University of the Witwatersrand, for instance, women accounted for only 19 percent of associate professors and 17 percent of full professors in recent years, according to Dr. Hilary Geber, a professor there.

In South Africa, female faculty of color are particularly rare. At the University of Cape Town, women account for 35 percent of the school’s overall academic staff of 779. But only 59–or 8 percent–are women of color, according to Nazeema Mohammed, who oversees the school’s transformation from the apartheid system.

But women say representation at universities is just part of the problem. "Obviously, concerns about simply getting the numbers of African women into higher education–as both students and staff–are critical and a first point of advocacy," says Lynne Muthoni Wanyeki, former executive director of the African Women’s Development and Communications Network–known as FEMNET–a collective of African women’s organizations in Nairobi, Kenya. "But the insufficient support for the production, dissemination and use of African feminist knowledge and theory, in all fields, is surprising."

Groups such as the African Gender Institute are using technology as a major tool to overcome those hurdles. Dr. Elaine Salo, a senior lecturer at the African Gender Institute, says online connections to other female thinkers and advocates helps make up for the camaraderie that’s often lacking for women at African universities; it’s a loneliness that may lead many to leave the continent to pursue graduate-level studies. "The Internet and technology play a big role in breaking the isolation," says Salo. "We are doing work here that will result in a generation of scholars who will say: ‘We can do work here that is relevant to our society.’"

Bringing Feminist Scholars Together
Tamale became involved with the African Gender Institute in 2002, when she attended a workshop of African feminist scholars to assess African teaching and research in gender and women’s studies. Later, she took advantage of an institute program that offers visiting academics and activists stints of research and writing for a few months at the Cape Town campus. "Most importantly, what the AGI does is give African women academics the chance to meet each other and to work as though their minds are serious," says Dr. Jane Bennett, head of the African Gender Institute.

The institute was founded in 1996, two years after South Africa’s transition from apartheid to democracy, to expose African researchers and intellectuals to the importance of gender equity and to support those engaged in that process. Housed in offices at the University of Cape Town, it offers undergraduate and graduate academic programs in gender and women’s studies. Three core teaching faculty also raise up to $1 million a year from international foundations to offer programs for African scholars committed to gender equity.

Through formal instruction, research networks, publications and special projects, the institute regularly reaches hundreds of women across the continent from Ethiopia to Nigeria as well as African scholars in North America and Europe. Academics from French, Portuguese and Arabic-speaking African countries are increasingly collaborating with the group, in which scholars have explored issues ranging from university-based sexual harassment to the lives of urban gay youth in different areas of the world.

As in other advocacy groups for female scholars, technology is critical to the institute’s work. The African Gender Institute’s GWS-Africa project, where Tamale found moral support, aims to be "a completely open-access resource center." On its Web site, women can access papers and presentations, teaching resources and contact information for academic departments and individual scholars. In time, the group wants to post collected works of female African academics in a virtual library.

Online Connections
Female academics in Africa also exchange ideas and information through a number of other Web sites such as FEMNET in Kenya, Zimbabwe’s Women’s Resource Center and Network, Uganda’s African Women’s Economic Policy Network and Cameroon’s Association for Support to Women Entrepreneurs. "There’s actually a virtual African feminist university," says Bennett. "It exists in workshops and in conferences and online. It’s astonishing how under conditions of deprivation you can make this last."

Tamale also began contributing to Feminist Africa, a semi-annual journal the institute has produced since 2002. To ensure as many readers as possible, Feminist Africa is published both as a traditional 150-page academic journal, as well as on a free Web site. It’s one of only two English-language feminist journals on the entire continent, alongside the more eclectic quarterly publication Agenda, published by a group of South African women in Durban.

Feminist Africa "was a great outlet for me to analyze and document my experience," Tamale says. For now Tamale and emerging groups such as Sexual Minorities Uganda continue to challenge the nation’s culture of homophobia. Still, the Equal Opportunity Commission draft bill has not yet been written, and Tamale says there’s "no chance that sexual orientation will feature in the bill when it finally sees the light of day." But Tamale has gone far since the public outcry a few years ago. She became the first female dean of Makerere University’s Faculty of Law in 2004 and, earlier this year, she launched a research project on Gender, Law and Sexuality, which she hopes will someday become a fully fledged research center.

Gretchen L. Wilson is a journalist based in Johannesburg. Her Web site is

December 21, 2006

Honeymoons after the pink promise

by Hila Bouzaglou
When rings have been exchanged, tearful “I dos” have been uttered and empty champagne bottles are all that remain after a wedding reception, newly-weds embark on their honeymoon.
And now, it seems, hotels around South Africa are opening their doors to newly-weds both wearing tuxedos or white dresses — gay honeymooners. On December 1 South Africa became one of only five countries in the world to legalise same-sex marriage.

Considering that South Africa may become a popular destination for same-sex couples to visit and get married, hotels are looking to tap into pink money — the gay currency referring to an income without dependants. Although the international gay travel market accounts for more than 70-million arrivals worldwide, South Africa receives only 1% of international gay travellers, according to the South African Gay and Lesbian Travel Alliance (Saglta). However, the country is growing in popularity as a holiday destination. About 7,4-million people — most of them from other African countries — visited last year, up on the previous year’s figure of 6,7-million, says Statistics South Africa.

But are South African hotels ready to deal with Mr and Mr, or Mrs and Mrs, after the rice has been thrown?

Some local hotels are getting their staff trained by gay marketing strategists bent on teaching concierges and receptionists to fight the urge to ask, “Will your husband or wife be joining you?” and instead using the more general “spouse” or “partner”. Ezemvelo KZN Wildlife, which manages 68 lodges catering for eco-tourists heading to KwaZulu-Natal, hired Vivienne Quann of Hot Salsa Media, a marketing company that specialises in the gay market, to transform its hotels internally and teach staff how to deal with gay customers.

Quann, who trained Ezemvelo’s more than 60 staff members using role play, says: “It is important to acknowledge that as gay people we do not want to be treated any differently than anyone else. In the hospitality sector this means [as a starting point] all assumptions must be removed.” Other hotels are already searching for non-denominational ministers to perform marriage ceremonies and plan to offer marriage packages for same-sex couples. One of these is Umbhaba Lodge in Hazyview, Mpumalanga.

Dave Foxon, CEO of the lodge, says Umbhaba has already received bookings from same-sex couples 10 months in advance for weddings in the lodge’s chapel and garden. “People who don’t look at [the gay market] have blinkers on; some people are worried about their patrons but I definitely think it’s the way forward,” he says.

And if same-sex couples are still not satisfied, they can always go to gay-only, gay-owned hotels.

Amsterdam — a guest lodge in Oranjezicht, Cape Town, for gay men only — offers honeymoon champagne and cheese platters in its suites. Dutch owner Michiel Spaapen says the lodge will do anything a guest requests. “We have a big dining area, which could be used for weddings, and a large outside area for parties or ceremonies. There’s lots we can do here. Nothing is too big,” he says. French tourist Christophe Lemarchand (29), a guest at Amsterdam, says when the time comes he will get married in Paris but definitely honeymoon in Cape Town. Staying at a gay lodge like Amsterdam, which allows men to sunbathe and walk around in the nude, makes him feel free. “I can be naked. I can be with my boyfriend and do whatever I want.”

According to a research report titled The Gay and Lesbian Tourism Profile 2006, compiled by San Francisco-based market researchers Community Marketing, most gay travellers use the internet when researching and booking accommodation. It also found that about three-quarters of the gay population are more likely to choose a travel destination that is known to be gay-friendly. But whether a wedding venue is gay-friendly or not, some same-sex couples simply want a romantic atmosphere for their ceremony.

Johannesburg-based designer Isaac Kosmides (25) plans to marry his partner in a restaurant on the beach in Paternoster, a small coastal town in the Western Cape. Although not a particularly gay-oriented town, Kosmides says “it’s quiet and sleepy and one of the most beautiful places in the world”. When travelling with his partner, Kosmides says staying at gay resorts and hotels is important. “We just want to be ourselves and to be together. We work our arses off during the year and at the end of the year, it’s us time. It’s also nice to meet people who are like-minded in a certain capacity. You can tell each other where to eat, where to go out. There is a certain camaraderie in that.”

But what exactly does gay-friendly mean?

“You arrive at the hotel and they see two men or two women at reception. More often than not, it is automatically assumed you require a twin room or two single rooms. So now you are left feeling uncomfortable when requesting a double room, at which point you are given double takes or, as I have had more times than not, the ‘Oh um, oh um, let us see what we can do’ scenario,” says Quann. “We don’t want the looks and sniggers and bad service because of who we are. If we hold hands and someone complains … what we don’t want is that the gay couple are asked to leave, which happens more often than not.”