The bitter truth behind Thailand’s gay-friendly image

Deutsche Presse-Agentur – The latest research suggests more than half of us believe homosexuality is morally wrong – a prejudice that’s reflected in the law

In Bangkok’s lively Silom district, customers pile into a small, noisy gay bar on a busy Saturday night. Chakgai Jermkwan and his partner Sean L’Estrange co-own the popular venue, which is located on a narrow soi lined with gay bars.

The couple have been together for eight years and were legally married three years ago in Boston, Massachusetts.

“We are a married couple in the US but here in Thailand, we are just two friends in the eye of the law,” Chakgai says. “If something bad happened to him tomorrow, I wouldn’t have a say in anything,” Sean adds. “I would be nothing.”

Thailand welcomes lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) visitors: its tourism authority targets the LGBT market, and Bangkok is often the only Asian city included on lists of gay-friendly tourist destinations around the world. There is no law against homosexuality in Thailand, in contrast to some of its regional neighbours.

However, Thai society is less accepting of its own lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities. Among Thais between 15 and 24 years old, 56 per cent think homosexuality is wrong, according to recent research by Khon Thai Foundation, a non-profit organisation. By comparison, more than 70 per cent of young people in Japan, South Korea, the Philippines and western European countries think that homosexuality should be accepted by society at large, according to the Pew Research Centre, an American think-tank.

In a country where nearly 95 per cent of people are Buddhists, many believe that gay or transgender people suffer from bad karma for committing adultery in their past lives.

“I find it surprising that Thailand, being one of the most gay-friendly countries [for foreigners], does not have laws that support and protect the LGBT community,” says L’Estrange, an Irish-American who has lived here for almost 10 years.

Thailand has no laws against discrimination toward LGBT people, and a recent surrogacy bill defines parents as members of heterosexual couples only. Same-sex marriage is neither licensed nor recognised.

Although a partnership bill has been drafted and will be submitted to Parliament, gay rights activists have concerns about it.

The Anjaree Group, Thailand’s largest lesbian and gay rights activist organisation, has criticised the bill for not granting homosexual couples the same rights as their heterosexual counterparts. The proposed Civil Partnership Act includes the right to use one’s spouse’s surname, the right to end the partnership and property rights. But it also raises the age of legal consent from 17 to 20 and does not include joint adoption or parental rights.

“Although we won’t get all the rights we deserve, at least it’ll be a good start,” says Chakgai.

Transgenders, or “katoey”, are more common in Thailand than perhaps in any other country in the world, but they too complain of discrimination.

It is estimated that 1 in 166 men in Thailand is katoey, compared to

1 in 2,500 in the United States, according to research by the University of Hong Kong.

It was not until 2011 that the Ministry of Defence stopped classifying katoey – men living as women, not limited to those who have undergone gender reassignment surgery – as people with permanent psychological problems.

Again, the legal framework seems to lag behind. Transgender females are still identified as male in their passports, for instance, although there have been hints that katoey may get formal recognition under the country’s next constitution.

“Society seems to have space for transgenders [only] specific to the entertainment and tourism industry,” says Kath Khangpiboon, the only transgender lecturer at Thammasat University.

“I am very fortunate that the university considered me for my ability, but most transgenders do not get that chance,” says the social welfare professor.

“I have heard many stories of employers telling transgender women to go cut their hair or dress like a man in order to get the job. The country’s liberal image is superficial,” she says.

Changing image into reality may require a more concerted effort from the authorities and the LGBT community.

“There are no openly gay people in high-ranking offices who can influence the change in both law and attitude,” says Suppakorn Chudabala, a gay rights researcher. “The local LGBT community needs to be more active as well.”

The Justice Ministry’s Kertchoke Kasemwongjit, head of the team drafting the same-sex partnership bill, agrees that more activism is needed.

“We need more support from LGBT people to implement changes in the law,” he says.

“The first step in advocating for LGBT rights is to educate people that being homosexual or transsexual is not wrong,” Suppakorn says.

“People need to stop thinking that heterosexual is a norm and understand that sexuality is diverse. We are not asking for any privileges,” says Chakgai, the bar owner.

“We just want to be treated equally, like everyone else.”

Source – The Nation